After reading this question (https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/7654), I realized that I’m also often told by both men and women, “You’re very alluring” and “You look sexy even when you’re fully dressed,” but I can’t get a boyfriend. I’ve never had one in my entire life.

“Your whole vibe is sexy,” I see（笑）. This is Marika. People who are sexy look sexy no matter what they wear, don’t they? Even when I was in high school, people said I looked sexy in a white or light-blue button-down shirt with a plaid pleated skirt. Anyway, when it comes to a boyfriend, I don’t think whether you’re sexy or not is the main issue. Just as Hana said, if being sexy is all you have going for you, you may get offers, but they probably won’t last. Can you interact well with people? Are you interested in others? Do people often tell you, “You’re kind of unusual, aren’t you?” Can you keep a conversation going? I can’t really say without knowing what else you’re like besides being sexy, but I think it would be good to develop the qualities that make you appealing as a person—not just your sex appeal. Marika

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. > I’m often told by both men and women, “You’re very alluring,” or “You look sexy even when you’re fully dressed,” but I can’t get a boyfriend. I’ve never had one in my entire life. Maybe you still don’t have quite enough sex appeal. If it was a man from Universe who told you that, then he liked you enough to want to meet you even if it meant paying the arrangement fee, so of course he would say that—and he probably genuinely feels that way. That said, perhaps you can’t really call it true sex appeal until you’re captivating enough that men keep turning around to look at you when you walk by. Also, since most people on Pairs are looking for a romantic partner, I don’t think having sex appeal—or not—has much impact there. If anything, it probably comes down to whether you seem like someone they’d want to go out and have fun with. In that case, on apps especially, your ability to communicate, promote yourself, and present yourself effectively probably makes a big difference. By the way, I just noticed this: “I’ve never had one in my entire life.” Does that mean your papa was your first partner?

I’m Kazu, a male member. You mentioned that you “used photos that were also posted on Universe Club.” Does that mean you saved and reused the profile photos taken by the staff? If so, since they have the feel of studio photos taken by someone else, they may have come across as too polished or try-hard, which could have put people off. So the issue probably wasn’t your sex appeal—it was simply using the wrong type of photo for the situation. As an aside, the copyright belongs to the person who took the photo. Since the staff took them as part of their job, Universe Club is generally considered the copyright holder as a work made in the course of employment. You shouldn’t use them without permission.

I’m in Seattle. You’re glamorous and sexy, but you’re not getting any likes. Are you wearing flashy-colored hair, flashy nails, or heavy, unnatural-looking makeup? There’s nothing wrong with doing whatever you like for yourself, but if you’re trying to appeal to men, you’d be better off going for a look like Nogizaka46. I think you’d get twice as many likes. As for the rest of your life, marriage isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. If you plan on staying single, focus on building a fulfilling career and saving money—you’ll have a more enjoyable life.