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Jul 16, 2021 04:58
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
That’s about right. Around 20 minutes of penetration is probably a reasonable amount of time. I keep an eye on how she’s doing, but even at most, I wrap things up within 30 minutes.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m column writer Fuu.
If you absolutely want it to last an hour and won’t feel satisfied otherwise—that’s your main purpose in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—then I suppose you’ll need to keep making offers until you find a female member who’s comfortable with that amount of time.
The women who can naturally tolerate it will continue seeing you, while those who can’t will likely cut things off. Unfortunately, since the other person in your question looks uncomfortable, if you go any further, she may not be able to endure it and could end the relationship.
The most important thing for maintaining an ongoing arrangement is, at the very least, not doing anything the other person dislikes. Generally speaking, I think keeping penetration to within 30 minutes is the safer approach.
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I think it’s best to approach sex with the mindset that it’s for the woman.
Both the time and what happens during it.
Please be considerate and remember that you can’t truly enjoy it if she isn’t satisfied.
Also, if you can’t ejaculate at the time she wants—or has in mind—you should recognize that you may not be sexually compatible. Women also want to get excited together with a man, feel good, and finish satisfied at the right moment.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s really about the amount of time. If she feels comfortable being intimate with you, she’ll be fine spending several hours together. But if she feels uncomfortable, a woman will naturally want to leave as soon as possible. If most women start looking tired after about 30 minutes, then perhaps they’re feeling uncomfortable—you just haven’t noticed it.
From your question, it may seem like you’re being considerate of the women, but not every woman wants you to do nothing. Some women genuinely want to touch a man’s body actively. Women aren’t body pillows or dolls.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Marika, you’re amazing. I’d get tired after about 30 minutes.
Whatever the outcome, I’d call it a day after an hour and head out for dinner.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> Personally, I’d like to keep going for an hour or even two.
Hmm… I think you should start by looking for a woman who’s comfortable with that. Otherwise, you could always visit an adult entertainment establishment.
In my experience, the more sensitive a woman is, the more tiring an adult relationship (intimate) can be for her.
So if she’s particularly sensitive, she’d need to be physically fit and have enough stamina to keep going—not necessarily a marathon runner, but someone with good endurance—for one or two hours to be manageable.
Looking at it the other way, a woman who isn’t especially sensitive might be able to handle one or two hours without getting tired, regardless of her stamina.
That said, I’ve also heard that the area can become sore, so physical resilience in that regard may be necessary as well.
With all that in mind, I feel there probably aren’t many women who are fine with going for an hour or two. Still, it might be worth looking for someone like that.
You might also consider looking into how to overcome delayed ejaculation (difficulty ejaculating inside the vagina).
Other
I don’t think it’s about whether you can keep going or not—it probably just starts becoming uncomfortable to keep it in. From what I’ve seen here, around 30 minutes or less seems to be the norm.
Personally, I’m the type who would happily keep going for an hour or two, take a break, and then continue for another couple of hours, so like you, I seem to be relatively unusual.
Marika