I’ve only been a member for a little over a year, so I’m still a newcomer. I’d like to ask those with more experience how they go about letting go of partners.
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Fortunately, I’m continuing to see several women I have good relationships with, but the women I’ve met this year are all wonderful in terms of physical compatibility, personality, appearance, allowance, and scheduling. Since my time to meet is limited, I have no choice but to turn down the women I can’t see.
However, when they tell me they want to see me, I feel rude continuing to brush them off by saying I’m busy. I also find it difficult to tell them that I’ve found another partner.
More than anything, I’d like to avoid blocking them or simply cutting off contact.
When you end a relationship, what approach do you take? I’d appreciate hearing from everyone.
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
If someone leaves you on read, and you keep messaging anyway, they may switch to leaving you on unread.
And if you still keep going with messages like “Why?” “Hellooo?” or “Did you block me?”, they may continue leaving you on unread.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think it’s perfectly fine to just leave the message on read.
Wouldn’t it be a bit of a turnoff if you knew that the women saying, “I want to meet you!” probably have several other papas (male supporters) too…? There’s a chance they say that to everyone, so I think it’s better to stay calm and assess the situation carefully.
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Maezawa, the CEO, will answer as well.
I think it would be fine to tell him directly that you want to end things, but if that feels difficult, you could let the relationship fade out naturally.
For example, you could say something like:
“Work has gotten really busy, so I won’t be able to see you for a while.”
You could leave it at that for six months or a year, or something along those lines.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Try going on a low-effort date.
If she starts complaining, just leave her messages unread, then block and delete her.
Let the woman dislike you first—you’ll be able to cut her loose right away.
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