Tips Jul 13, 2021 23:54

I’m the female member who asked yesterday about arranging our next date.

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Thank you all for your advice. The suggestions to explain not only that I want to see him, but also why, and to set the date for our next outing while we’re together were especially helpful. I almost want to tell him, “Could I call you for just a little while? I’d love to hear your voice.” But while that would make me happy if it came from someone I liked, I’m holding back because otherwise it might just feel like an unwanted call. After all, I don’t know how much affection he has for me. Until we decide on the next date, I’ll probably continue to have these bittersweet feelings of unrequited love, but I’ve decided to stay humble and not rush things. It sounds like he’ll be going on a business trip this week, so I’ll start by sending him an encouraging message along the lines of, “Have a safe trip, and come back home feeling well,” either the day before he leaves or on the morning of his departure. Then I’ll look for the right opportunity to tell him that I’d like to share my hobby with him and that I want to see him. It would be nice if there were a feature that allowed us to post thank-you comments for questions and answers. Once again, thank you, everyone.
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I’m a male member named Paper Airplane. Have you still not decided on your next date? I think it would be a good idea to set a date soon. With a Type B arrangement, some men may feel like you’re too focused on the allowance, so… As a man, I’d also be happy to hear you talk about outings and things you’d like to try, such as grape picking, movies, driving, karaoke, cafés, or relaxing places. Also, since you don’t know whether the man’s business trip is genuine, I don’t think you should get too involved with that—at least while your next date hasn’t been arranged. If something eventful happens, like an accident or an injury, I think it’s fine to show concern. The fun exchanges about your next meeting are part of the appeal too. If you message him about things you’d like to do, places you’d like to go, foods you’d like to try, or anything you’d enjoy doing together, you’ll probably also get a sense of how he envisions things developing—whether he prioritizes an adult relationship or dates, for example.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. > It would be nice to have a feature that lets people leave comments thanking someone for their answer, like in a question box. Thank-you comments are set to be displayed. Even if one happens to be hidden, the person who answered can still see it, so there’s no problem. By the way, abusive or defamatory comments directed at answerers aren’t hidden—they’re deleted, so even the answerer won’t be able to see them. > A LINE message that simply says, “I like you. I’d like to see you again,” doesn’t move me at all. In the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) world, you can’t really trust whether those feelings are genuine, after all. I hadn’t considered people who are popular. When it comes to ordinary men, I think some women wouldn’t even say things like “I like you.” They’d simply say something like, “When can we meet again?” I had the impression that many people don’t really have a reason for wanting to meet. But you’re right—when it comes to a popular man, if every woman writes the same thing, then it does lose its meaning. Come to think of it, some men tell popular women that they’re beautiful or that they like them. But since those women are used to hearing it, it doesn’t really affect them, so the men have to appeal to them in a way that sets them apart from the others. So it’s the same thing. Say something that the other women probably aren’t saying… That’s pretty difficult. For now, it’s probably better to say those things since the other person might be an ordinary man. But with a popular man, saying only that won’t add anything, so you need to be a little more creative.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. I remember feeling that way… It was right after we started seeing each other, and I felt just like you do now—I wanted to hear his voice and sometimes felt so wistful. So I really empathize with you. These days… I’m just a little stronger than I was back then (lol). Please hold on to those humble feelings.
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