About making plans for the next date.

I’m Meg, one of the female members. If I were a papa (a male supporter), I’d love to be in a relationship with someone like you. And Taro’s phrase, “a torrent of affection,” really resonated with me. I think any relationship is bound to have its ups and downs. When that happens, it gives you a chance to reaffirm your feelings—like, “I really don’t want to lose this papa!” Maybe relationships last when there’s something that stirs your deepest emotions. Something like that happened to me just last week. He said, “I guess it’s true that adversity strengthens the bond,” but I wanted to say, “You’re one to talk!” lol He’s been sincerely apologizing over and over. It’s actually kind of adorable.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here. I’d be happy if she told me she wanted to see me again. That said, I’d probably assume she was mainly after the allowance. But since it’s a dating club, I think that’s perfectly fine, and I believe men understand that’s part of the deal. Still, if she gave a proper reason, like: “I can’t stop thinking about our kiss the other day.” or “You were so kind and wonderful. I’d love to see you again. Are you free on the [date]?” and sent me something like that, I’d probably feel happy and arrange a date—even while assuming she really wanted the money. If you overdo it, it can backfire. But if you can make him think, “She probably wants the allowance, but maybe she does genuinely like me, too,” I feel like he’ll want to see you more often.

I’m Taro, a male member. I’d say, go all in. In this world, men may always have the feeling that, “She’s only meeting me for the money, right?” In response, you want her to feel, “Sure, money matters, but that’s not all there is.” Since that can be pretty hard to convey, I think the only way to get it across is with an overwhelming amount of affection. It’s good to mix in little things that show it isn’t just about the money. Chat about other topics while arranging your schedules, be proactive when you meet, and, if time allows, stay together until she’s ready to wrap things up. I think it’s important to build up enough actions that make her think, “Even if he were only after the money, he wouldn’t go this far.” I’d try to keep it going until you’ve met two more times. In my experience, if you can meet around three times with an adult relationship (intimate), things tend to stabilize and continue from there.

I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. I’ve never really paid much attention to that kind of thing. I ask about her availability, and women ask about mine too. I rarely set the date for our next meeting while we’re still on a date, but if she’s someone I’d like to see again, I’ll bring up ideas for what we could do next time. Usually, sometime the day after the date, we’ll discuss things over LINE—“How about this restaurant?” or “This place looks good!”—and it naturally turns into, “So, when are you free?”

I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.” It’s ideal that you became an exclusive arrangement after just the second meeting. With a Type B woman, the third and fourth meetings are especially important. As a man, you may be wondering: Would she want another adult relationship next time? If she isn’t more of a Type C, would she dislike having adult relationships two times in a row? It’s understandable to be unsure. Since you’ve already progressed to an arrangement, you’re probably also trying to determine whether you like her enough to want to continue seeing her. And above all, physical compatibility is important too. I think you’re also judging that. So even if she’s still feeling uncertain, it’s reassuring when the woman herself invites you. When a woman says she wants to see you, you naturally want to see her too. You can be direct and suggest some dates, or tell her what kind of restaurant or food you’d like, or where you’d like to go. The sooner the proposed dates, the better. When messaging, the key is to send as many available dates as possible—for example, “I’m free on these three days” or “Any day except this one works”—so it seems like you’re available almost anytime rather than trying to coordinate a complicated schedule. Since she clearly likes you that much, don’t make other plans; keep your schedule open until she replies, even if it’s right up until the day before or the day of. Also, with Type B women, it’s fairly common for them to ask, “Are you free today?” and make plans for that same day. You may end up seeing each other on consecutive days, with just one day in between, or meeting quite frequently.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I usually wait for the woman to invite me out. Rather than simply messaging, “I’d like to see you again,” I think it’s better to mention what you find appealing about him. Since you’re asking for advice on what to do after you’ve met, I recommend making plans for your next date while you’re still together.