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Jul 10, 2021 20:21
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Wouldn’t this be a world most people would know nothing about if they lived an ordinary life? Especially since I wonder whether a young woman with no sexual experience, who isn’t particularly attracted to older men, would normally register at one. Are there really virgins at dating clubs? Since it’s based on women’s self-reports, they can lie as much as they want, right? In fact, one of my friends has been with more than 50 people, but apparently she’s quite tight, so men ask her every time, “Are you a virgin?” and she lies, saying, “Yeah > <.” I think there are women who believe that men ultimately prefer virgins, right?
Also, when inexperienced women want to try papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), most of them start with an app because it’s easy, and many women don’t even know dating clubs exist. If someone has never worked in the adult entertainment industry and is a virgin, would they really normally find out about this world?
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Age: Private
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer this too.
There really are virgins.
Since I ask the men they went on dates with, I believe it’s true unless the men are lying.
Of course, it’s also possible that the men themselves were deceived.
But if you think about it that deeply, I feel like nothing would be fun anymore. It’s almost a matter of “those who believe will be rewarded.”
If she says that’s the case and you also believe it yourself, then she’s a virgin.
I once heard about a woman who was a virgin and only did outercourse, but somehow ended up being penetrated without realizing it.
I thought, “Huh? It was her first time, and it happened without her realizing it? Can that really happen?”
She apparently didn’t feel any pain and there was no bleeding.
In cases like that, even if she really was a virgin, I might end up saying, “You’re lying, aren’t you?” and inadvertently say something hurtful to her.
I think it’s best to first judge the other person’s character. Once you decide they’re someone you can trust, just trust them completely.
That seems like the best way to be happy. I don’t think life is enjoyable if you spend it constantly doubting people.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m sure there are some. Since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) has even been featured on TV shows and in the news, most people would at least have heard of it.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
There was a hostess in Ginza who was 25 and marketed herself as a virgin, but the women would say to her face, “That’s definitely a lie!” Still, she could have fun chatting with men about it while serving them, and she seemed to enjoy herself overall. That’s about how much the virgin thing is worth, in my opinion. Would it really be so bad if it were a lie?