How do you all handle saying goodbye to someone you’ve been seeing regularly?
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I had been meeting a woman regularly every month for about a year, but she suddenly stopped responding, and we were more or less forced to part ways.
With someone I’d only met a few times, I suppose fading out would be understandable, but I’m very worried that I may have done something wrong.
I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences.
I’m a male member, BB7.
Did she suddenly stop contacting you after a year?
If you were at fault, maybe it was because the allowance was too low and she’d been putting up with it the whole time?
Whether it’s been one year or two, PJ girls don’t usually feel as attached to their papas as we imagine. They’ll cut things off without a second thought when it suits them.
If you keep that in mind, it’s perfectly normal, and you won’t be hit nearly as hard.
Move on to the next one.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Come on—if she’s been your favorite for a whole year, respect her choice.
Even saying something like, “Am I the reason?” is actually self-centered.
When something could damage the relationship, pick up on the signs and prevent it before it happens.
For your own growth, to support Universe’s revenue, and as a learning experience, let’s put in some new offers.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Some women have their own goals and are firmly determined to quit once they reach them—for example, after saving up 10 million yen.
Others may quit because they’ve started dating someone. There are all kinds of reasons.
So sometimes a woman may suddenly “graduate” from papa-katsu.
Now that you’ve learned that this can happen, perhaps you’ve gained a bit more experience?
Men and women…
Maybe it’s precisely because relationships are so complicated that we feel compelled to keep exploring them.
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I’m columnist Fuu.
I understand feeling lonely. In my case, the women are younger and tend to go through more life events and changes in circumstances, so I date multiple people and spread out my feelings, assuming that one day I may be cut off.
It would be lonely if my favorite person stopped seeing me, but I’d probably send out lots of offers and look for someone who suits me even better than the woman before.
That’s the magic of Universal—this is how Universal keeps making money, haha.
Let’s move on to the next one!
I’m sure a new relationship will help you forget.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> I’m extremely worried that I may have done something wrong.
If your treatment of her was no different from usual, then her suddenly cutting off contact was likely due to something happening that she couldn’t bring herself to tell you about.
In my experience (though I’ve only had one such relationship), after dating for about a year, you tend to start talking about almost anything. Maybe it was something she couldn’t tell you?
If you can’t think of anything, I’d say it’s fine not to pursue her too aggressively, wait patiently, and also start preparing for the next step.
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