I’ve had dinner with a man who made me an offer several times, but he seems to lack confidence, often appears nervous, struggles to keep the conversation flowing, and sometimes says things that are rather insensitive. I’ve started to feel reluctant about meeting him.
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I don’t think I want to continue the relationship like this, so although it’s unfortunate, I’d like to bring it to an end.
For those of you who have ended a relationship with a P or PJ in the past, how did you go about it?
(Did it naturally fade out? Did you explain your reasons? Was any parting money involved?)
I’d really appreciate your advice.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well.
Men often say, “You could at least tell me why,” but if you give them a reason, they may respond with things like, “That was just a one-time thing. I won’t do it again,” leading to several rounds of back-and-forth. It just seems like a hassle.
So, ideally, I think letting things naturally fade out is best.
That said, I can understand how the man feels, too.
I think it’s fine to explain the reason, tell him that you won’t be able to continue seeing him, and then not respond afterward.
By the way, try to phrase the reason as gently as possible. There’s no point in insulting him.
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I’m a male member named Basil.
No-shows and last-minute cancellations are a bad look, but if it’s only a casual dinner-only relationship, I think it’s fine to simply stop reaching out and let things fade naturally. There’s no way you should have to pay a parting fee.
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