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People sometimes describe someone’s terms as “bold” or “on the high side.” At what point do you personally start thinking, “Wow, those are pretty bold terms”?

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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. For women outside the entertainment industry, I feel that asking for 100,000 yen or more is pretty bold. Unless there’s some added value beyond sex, I usually turn down pay-per-meeting offers of 100,000 yen or more.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > Strong, high terms I think it would be inappropriate to give specific figures here, so I believe it ultimately comes down to finding a point where the woman’s expectations and mine balance out. Isn’t the right point to settle on wherever you feel your expectations and the other person’s are balanced? If you’ve ever failed to reach an agreement—no first meeting, or only a first meeting with no continuation—then from the other person’s perspective, your terms were probably too demanding.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it depends on the woman. The highest amount I’ve ever heard a woman ask for was 100,000 yen. Some women didn’t strike me as unusual at all, while others seemed pretty demanding. I’ve also thought women were being rather bold when they asked for 70,000 or 80,000 yen.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member with a low-paying papa offering 5 or less. The fact that she’s asking about it already feels pretty demanding to me. Personally, I prefer someone who doesn’t have too many hopes or specific terms. Even if she’s “black,” 5 or less is cute, but anything over 5 feels too demanding, and I couldn’t continue with her. Ideally, I’d like us to first get a feel for whether we’re compatible in various ways.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering your question as well. Once the allowance exceeds ¥100,000, I sometimes think it might be best to let the man know in advance, since he may not have that much cash in his wallet. That said, plenty of women receive around ¥100,000. I’d start to worry once it goes over ¥150,000 or so.
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