I’m Tetsu, a male member.
So, you’re saying a pay-per-meeting allowance of 50,000 yen or 150,000 yen a month makes him a low-paying papa? Everyone sees things differently, so I won’t comment on your standards. But if you feel the arrangement isn’t worth it, then you really have no choice but to end it.
Whether you find a generous (well-paying) papa or an extremely low-paying one is mostly luck. Even if you find a generous papa, it’s over if he doesn’t want to continue seeing you—that’s luck too.
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I’m a male member, BB7.
Five per meeting and 15 a month is pretty standard.
I’d still hate being tied down, even for 100.
Dreaming about meeting a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter) with no strings attached and making a killing is the best part.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
First of all, I think you need a bit of luck—or rather, an appearance that attracts plenty of wealthy men. Just like with corporate hiring, there’s no point if you can’t get past the resume screening. In the same way, you need the looks and overall profile to clear that first hurdle.
After that, I think it’s up to you whether you can turn a low-paying papa into a generous (well-paying) papa. Men who are generous from the start can actually be less trustworthy. Someone who suddenly spends a large amount of money on a woman he barely knows may just as easily move on to another woman.
To reduce that risk, you need to sincerely engage with each papa and have the patience to “cultivate” the relationship. I’m sure there are men who will become generous (well-paying) papas—it depends on you.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Would you be okay with being possessively controlled by a generous papa?
Being controlled by a generous papa sounds like a hassle—the more generous he is, the less leverage you have to say no.
You’ll probably keep repeating the same pattern unless you first get better at winning over low-paying papas.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who’s a low-paying papa (a male supporter).
If you think I’m too low-paying, I’d rather you cut ties with me sooner. Please do.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
It’s true that being controlling isn’t a good thing.
If you try to control someone, you’ll end up being called a low-paying papa.
That seems pretty obvious to me.
Instead of trying to control her, just think, “It’s fine for her to have as many papas as she wants.”
(You probably don’t need to actually say that.)
If you have that mindset, there’s a good chance she’ll think, “I’m glad I met such a great person.”
> Is finding a generous papa just a matter of luck?
Luck plays a part, but I think you also need some skill.
I’m not sure what level of generosity you mean by “generous papa,” but men who give women substantial allowances have, naturally, met all kinds of women before.
So if you’re only slightly above average, you may not even receive an offer.
And even if you do receive an offer from someone a little better, the allowance may not be that high.
Even among generous papas, I think most adjust the allowance depending on the woman and how much they feel like giving her.
Unless he thinks, “This woman is worth giving a substantial allowance to,” you probably won’t receive a large allowance.
So I suppose the conclusion is that luck is necessary, but ability matters too.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I believe it takes more than luck—you also need the ability to consistently give a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter) what he wants.
Even a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter) probably doesn’t offer a large allowance to just anyone.
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