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Jun 19, 2021 09:26
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Thank you for your question! I’m Kida, the representative, and I’ll answer.
“Should I gain more experience and get better at this?”
→ Of course.
It’s a given.
In the adult world, results are everything. As everyone says, the goal of an adult relationship (intimate) is ejaculation. No matter how young, endearing, or fond of him you are, if you can’t reach that goal, all your efforts are wasted.
Watch vaginal-training videos on YouTube, or go into the mountains and wrestle bears—whatever it takes to train yourself.
At the very least, don’t blindly accept the “adult” opinions in this Q&A box, like, “Don’t worry about that. He really loves you.”
If you like him, get him off like your life depends on it.
I’m sure that man will like you even more for it.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I think it was probably a way of hiding his embarrassment—or a sign that he wanted to brush things off and get through the moment.
When men are tired, they sometimes can’t finish. It can happen even when they’re young, but the likelihood increases with age.
From a man’s perspective, if he can’t finish or loses his erection while being intimate with a woman, he may worry that she’ll question his ability as a man.
This isn’t a brothel, so the whole point shouldn’t be just to get him off. If you say something like, “Are you feeling a little tired today?” and just cuddle and enjoy the moment, I think he can still be satisfied without finishing.
Other
I’m a male member, BB7.
Could it be due to age…?
Once you’re over 50, it’s possible for things to get smaller without reaching ejaculation—or rather, because you can’t.
He might say, “You look young and cute,” regardless of that.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
> Is he trying to gently tell me that I lack technique?
I don’t think that’s the case at all.
I don’t think the other person’s technique makes that much of a difference.
If anything, whether you make sounds or not, and whether you visibly respond with pleasure or not, probably has a greater impact.
It may mean that he usually has trouble reaching climax, but he liked the way you reacted and moaned.
I do think it’s worth developing your technique, but I don’t think you need to rush just yet.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
Rather than whether he gets better at it, I think the man will be more interested in how much you enjoy it and how much you open up over time.
How much pleasure—or excitement—you experience will probably determine whether you’re compatible enough to continue seeing each other.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Your question is already so cute. It’s wonderful that you like him so much and want to get better for him. Since you’re already doing your best with oral, I think you’re fine. Those of us in the papa generation sometimes can’t finish, so don’t worry about it too much. Next time, just be your usual cute self and enjoy an adult relationship (intimate)—without showing any sign that you’re concerned he couldn’t finish last time. Men can be surprisingly sensitive. I imagine you’ll feel less nervous the second time and things will go more smoothly.
If he still can’t finish on your next date, then you can think about it again.
If he’s somewhat prone to ED, medication should solve the problem. If he tends to take a long time, there are probably various options, such as trying his favorite positions, cosplay, or different scenarios. I get the feeling that your papa (a male supporter) says you’re cute because he genuinely finds you cute. How nice—I’m jealous!
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m voting for Seattle!
I feel the same way.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Some men are perfectly satisfied just watching a woman writhe without climaxing themselves.
Maybe he thought you were cute because you’re young and adorable ♡
and were trying so hard. I think he was simply enjoying how cute and exciting you were to him.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I don’t worry about not ejaculating—it just means the guy is getting older.
Even I only manage it once every three times lately 😢
Even so, I still continue seeing people for meals if we enjoy talking together.
Once you’ve talked a lot and grown close in other ways, technique is only one small part of it.
Age: Private
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Many of the questions posted here are things the person asking should probably bring up with the other person directly. This question is one of them—the reason he said, “You’re cute and childlike,” is something only he knows.
Generally speaking, I think it’s better if he reaches climax, but I can’t tell whether he didn’t because the questioner’s technique wasn’t quite enough.
If he’s a man you really love, I think you should face him directly and ask what he truly thinks.