I’m a male member. This isn’t a question.

Even Maezawa from the president’s office will weigh in. I’ve heard that octopus, which Japanese people eat, is considered too disgusting to eat overseas. Many people don’t eat snails, but they do eat escargot. Many people don’t eat bird’s nests, but they do eat swallow’s nest. Apparently, some of the finest coffee beans are collected after passing through an animal’s digestive system. > “Once I put it in, she immediately urges me to let her see the sperm.” That’s amusing. She wants to see it even without drinking it—she’s unusual. “Please finish quickly” → “I want you to feel good quickly.” That’s interesting. It’s obvious she wants to save time, but instead of saying so directly (though it’s almost direct), she phrases it differently. I think that’s unusual in a good way. She might be the kind of woman who wants to fulfill a man’s wishes. She may want to save time without cutting corners—in other words, she might be someone who wants to meet a man’s preferences. Once you become closer, she might even agree to things that most people would consider a bit much, such as being intimate outdoors. It may be difficult to ask right away, but if you go on several dates and build a relationship as people, there’s a chance she may become receptive. A woman who’s different from the others— I feel like the possibilities could really open up. At the very least, she’s someone you offered to meet because you liked her looks. Can’t you sense the potential? “...Is money God?” “Power, that’s what. It’s far more useful than God. What else would you place your value in, if not this? God? Love? Don’t make me laugh. A Chinese brat with no power and no god to rely on—what does she have? Money. And guns. With those two things, everything’s peaceful under heaven.” “That’s an unpleasant thing to hear. I’m sor—” “In short, when you’re walking along the blade of life, those are about the only things that really matter. No one can climax in the missionary position.”

I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane. If this was only the second time, I’d guess the first encounter went on too long and was too self-centered. Before they even consider compatibility, many women at these clubs are wary of things like overly long foreplay, intercourse that drags on, or a partner who takes a long time to finish. Simply addressing those concerns would probably make you much more welcome. In short, it’s important to express and demonstrate—not just through words and an allowance—that meeting you satisfied her and that she’s genuinely needed by you. As for what the woman told you, if this was only your second time, she probably wouldn’t have said it unless things were pretty serious. I think it would be good for you to get better at reading her reactions.

I’m Fuu, a columnist. As Mac-san also says, unless there’s something you particularly like about her—her face, her figure, or how well she responds physically—if she’s being blatantly hasty, it may be best to let her go. But if she’s simply unresponsive, as the questioner mentioned, one of the pleasures of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is taking the lead like a gentleman, putting in the effort, and gradually helping her enjoy herself. If you’re interested, please take a look at my column, “I Was Able to Satisfy Her”: https://universe-club.jp/column/fuu16 Let’s continue refining our papa-katsu skills together day by day（笑）