Tips Jun 18, 2021 23:17

Who usually showers first, the woman or the man? I’m a woman, but I’d prefer to go second (so I can match what he does, like whether he gets dressed, and because I feel embarrassed if the lights are on). Which is more typical?

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I’m Basil, a male member. It depends on how things unfold, but in the early stages, I like helping her undress and getting in the bath together.
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I’m Taro, a male member. Everyone has their preferences, but I think most women prefer the man to go first. Before doing it, it’s usually man → woman, and afterward, woman → man. Is that what they call the first-in, first-out method? Women tend to leave their clothes and underwear in the changing room, so it’s more practical for the woman to go first afterward. There was one girl who preferred man → woman, followed by man → woman again. I figured she probably kept all the bills in her wallet facing the same way. But for some reason, she left her underwear behind, so I ended up alone in the changing room with her panties and was completely bewildered.
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I’m Hikouki, a male member. It probably doesn’t really matter either way, but ideally, we’d decide to take a shower, naturally start embracing each other, gradually help each other out of our clothes, then fall onto the bed and passionately hold and caress each other. On the first date, though, it feels a little much to skip the shower entirely, so we’d continue hugging and caressing each other in our underwear. Just when the anticipation is building, we’d leave a little lingering tension and go take a shower together first. If she takes the lead and things heat up, there are times when we might just continue without showering… From the second meeting onward, if we’ve both already showered, we might skip it… Still, it’s rare to find someone with whom you naturally feel like hugging and holding each other like that.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. I feel like you could just be together, though...
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I’m Aya, a female member. I go with the flow of the moment. If you decide on one or the other in advance, doesn’t it start to feel like a script and make it seem more like a sex-industry service? I think it’s better to let things progress naturally, depending on the atmosphere.
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You don’t want to be the one to take your clothes off first, right? It makes you look all eager, haha. But if he’s already undressed me and says, “Come on in♡,” then I’ll get in first. Marika
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