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Jun 15, 2021 21:21
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Among the girls you see regularly, what kind of girl makes you want to treat her especially well?
Would it be someone cheerful or someone who’s interesting to talk to, for example?
8 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
I feel like it’s someone who’s a good match for you.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
First and foremost, I look for someone who genuinely sees me as a person and actually wants to spend time with me.
Looks and figure aren’t that important to me, since you get used to them after meeting a few times. Besides, at the offer stage, appearance is pretty much all you can judge, so she already has to meet a certain minimum standard for me.
Good conversation and intimacy are certainly a plus, but they aren’t enough by themselves to make me continue seeing someone. Even if I think someone is great, when you meet enough people, you’ll eventually find someone who’s a better fit.
This may get me flamed, but I tend to value women whose allowance is lower than the going rate. I feel like they’re looking at the person rather than the money. In those cases, even if her looks or figure turn out to be different in person, I’m willing to accept that. And when it comes to conversation or intimacy, I try to find a way for things to work.
I’ve recently realized that, surprisingly, a lot of things can be worked out through trial and error.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Someone who’s fun to talk to and spend time with, who I click with, and who genuinely needs me.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I can’t know their true intentions, but I’ve stayed with girls who made it clear that they genuinely cared about me. For example, they made seeing me a high priority or left the club without me even asking.
Even if a girl is attractive and great to talk to, things won’t last if our personalities or compatibility don’t match.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Kazu’s answer is wonderful. I completely agree with every point.
What I enjoy—and why I can’t stop—is that the balance of preferences below differs depending on the girl I’m seeing on a monthly arrangement.
① The first girl loves meals and dates, and gets excited talking about where we should go next. The intimacy is average, and she has a quiet, calm, and kind personality.
② The second girl doesn’t contact me very often and is a little more transactional, but she’s incredible when it comes to intimacy. She’s so tight that I feel like I’m going to climax the moment we start. She knows exactly what feels good to a man and what to do to please him. She climaxes too, so she gives me the best intimacy I’ve ever experienced.
③ She’s an ordinary, slightly cute woman in her early twenties. Once we get to the room and sit on the bed, she’ll sit next to me and lean against me or take my hand—she’s good at creating a sense of pretend romance. Since she’s young, she’s still developing her skills when it comes to intimacy. It was awkward at first, but she’s gotten better and better, and it’s irresistible.
④ She lives outside the city and has been seeing me continuously since I first joined, so she’s also appeared in my columns. We can’t meet right now because she got pregnant through a marriage after becoming pregnant, but we still keep in touch and plan to resume once things settle down. She’s cute, great at intimacy, fun to talk to over meals—in short, we really click. Maybe she’s just good at adapting to the other person? She used to work part-time at a sex cabaret and was supposedly their number-one in nominations. She says she left the club, quit the sex cabaret, and now focuses solely on her husband and me, but that might just be lip service(笑). When she registered with the club, she was a formidable ★+.
They’re all important to me, so I’m careful to maintain our relationships while respecting the right distance and making sure they don’t come to dislike me. I’m nothing but grateful to them all.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
The person I’ve been seeing the longest is someone who proposed to me—and I turned him down.
He’s fun to talk to, genuinely cares about me, and the sex is pretty average.
I turned him down because I don’t want to get married, but he’s contributed over ¥10 million in allowance over the years. We might be friends for life.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m looking for a woman who has a good personality, is fun to talk to, can have satisfying sex, has realistic expectations regarding her allowance, and genuinely cares about me.
All the women I see regularly fit that description, so if I’m meeting someone on a regular basis, she’s someone I intend to treat well.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m looking for a woman who’s genuinely willing to engage with me and someone I can trust(笑)