Do women who date multiple people see several papas only because they want money, don’t have enough money, or don’t know when the man they’re seeing might cut them off?
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Wouldn’t one reason also be that they want attention from multiple men, enjoy being popular, want to interact with several men, find one person unsatisfying or get bored with just one, and are looking for some excitement?
This may sound blunt, but isn’t a dating club a place where people who really like men or women tend to gather? What do you think?
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
There are all kinds of people, so I think everyone has their own reasons for getting involved.
It’s probably difficult to sum it up with just one reason.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m seeing several men—fewer than five, though. I wouldn’t say I’m a man-lover; if anything, I have a slight dislike of men. I don’t particularly like men themselves, but there’s something I enjoy about feeling like I’m in control of the men I’m seeing.
Of course, that’s just an illusion, and I can’t truly control them completely. Still, even if it’s only a fantasy, I like the feeling of having men under my thumb. “Keeping them wrapped around my finger” might be another way to put it.
The best moments are when they start suspecting I might be seeing other men and become consumed with jealousy.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Speaking from a man’s perspective, I wasn’t popular with women when I was younger, so I find it incredibly appealing that I can date all kinds of women now.
Is it because I’m into women? (笑)
Everyone has their own reasons, but I think dating clubs are more enjoyable when you can genuinely like the person you’re seeing.
Money is involved, of course, but there’s a chance of finding someone you can connect with emotionally—someone you can trust and respect. I’ve actually found someone like that, and our ongoing relationship is deeply fulfilling. That, to me, is what a dating club is all about.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think it’s probably a combination of those reasons—and those as well, wouldn’t you agree?
I joined the dating club because I wanted someone to date.
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