I’m a female member. Will the relationship end if I can’t see my partner for a while?
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I injured myself this month and will be on crutches for the time being, with an estimated four-month recovery period.
During that time, not only sex but even going out for dinner dates while using crutches will be difficult, so I won’t be able to see my papa for a while (TT)
He’s a papa I really love, and we’ve been seeing each other for about a year. He told me we could meet again once I’ve recovered, but this is the first time we’ll be unable to see each other for several months, so I’m worried that our relationship might end like this...
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
If he’s a papa you really care about, hopefully you’ll get to see him again.
Do you think you can make things work with occasional contact—enough not to get in his way? What’s your gut feeling?
I haven’t seen my favorite papa in about a year either. We stay in touch regularly, and we’re planning to meet again soon.
Please see my column:
https://universe-club.jp/column/gold14
Sorry to be so direct, but if your papa is seeing multiple women and you’re his top priority—or at least high on his list—I think there’s a good chance you’ll be able to meet again. That’s just my guess based on my own experience, though.
P.S. I pretty much agree with BB7.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Would it really be impossible to go on a dinner-only date during that time? If it’s a private room at a restaurant with good service, using crutches shouldn’t be a problem.
If sex is genuinely out of the question, you can’t really complain if he sees someone else during that time. But it should be okay to say something like, “Just don’t see too many other girls, okay?” If you’re very close, I think it’s fine to say that much.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Personally, if a woman I’m close to suffered a serious injury, I’d naturally worry and think about whether there was anything I could do for her.
“Don’t see her, don’t give her any money, and just sit around doing nothing until she’s fully recovered” isn’t an option.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Even among couples whose relationship doesn’t involve money, I feel that many end up breaking up when they’re in a long-distance relationship.
Four months may not seem like a problem at first, but I get the feeling that your hearts may gradually drift apart.
If he starts seeing another woman during that time, he may gradually develop feelings for her.
> I’ll have to use crutches for the time being.
Unless you’ll be hospitalized for the full four months, I think you should try to meet as often as possible.
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I’m BB7, a male member.
If the man is seeing multiple women, I’d probably wait.
If he’s only seeing one woman, I’d probably start looking for someone else.
That’s just what I’d do, though（笑).
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It doesn’t necessarily mean things will end, but I do think there’s a risk of that happening.
That said, if he’s a papa you really care about, things may be okay. I’d suggest checking in from time to time so he doesn’t forget about you.
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