I’m a man who has had similar experiences to the woman in the question about someone seeming to dislike kissing.
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Incidentally, it wasn’t a Magikarp kiss in my case, but an ordinary deep kiss. Even so, four out of the five women I made offers to held their breath, screwed up their faces, and looked visibly uncomfortable.
Do young women dislike kissing, dislike kissing older men, or is my breath bad? I can’t figure out the reason.
Do women really kiss their boyfriends so reluctantly as well? I’d like to make offers in advance to women who will enjoy kissing more, but how can I tell?
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not fond of deep kissing with women either. If she were my girlfriend, I wouldn’t be eager to do it, but I could go along with it. With escorts, I disliked it, but felt it would be wrong to refuse, so I reluctantly endured it.
The reasons and circumstances vary from woman to woman, and I don’t think there’s any way to tell in advance. You may just have to make lots of offers and find a woman who doesn’t mind deep kissing.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
I asked a few women about this.
Apparently, it depends on the person.
If it’s someone they like, just kissing can be enough for them to get there. But if it’s someone they don’t like, they said they just think of it as being bitten by a dog.
That’s what they told me.
For older guys, apparently, it’s safest to stick to a French kiss.
> I’d like to find a woman in advance who would actually enjoy kissing more. How can I tell?
Rather than trying to figure that out, I think it would be better to think about how to make her like you.
That way, you’ll both be able to have a good time.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Looking at it from the PJ’s perspective, the genders are reversed: imagine being a college-aged woman and having to be intimate with someone around your mom’s age.
Intimacy is already pretty tough, but sloppy, deep kissing can be really difficult too. I’m sure she’d put up with it for the money（笑）and wipe her mouth afterward.
Basically, if you want things to continue with a PJ you like, it’s important not to do things she clearly seems uncomfortable with.
There are girls who are fine with kissing, and even girls who enjoy it. See Fuu’s column here:
https://universe-club.jp/column/fuu15
You can’t really tell in advance, so meeting someone like that mostly comes down to luck.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I hate kissing people I don’t like. The mouth is close to the brain, so I feel like emotions come into play more than they do with other kinds of intimacy. Basically, I also don’t want to kiss old guys or anyone with bad breath.
I was watching wrestling earlier, and a 38-year-old wrestler—just one year older than me—was described as a “vigorous old-guy wrestler.” So I’m definitely an old guy myself. That’s why I pay attention to my breath, and on dates I’ll casually ask my wife or daughter to check it for me. I know it’s kind of a sleazy thing to do.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Questioner, and I mean this with no offense, but could it be that you’re simply not the type women are attracted to? Even younger men who aren’t popular with women often try to shove their tongues in despite being terrible kissers, turning into total “Magikarp” types. Because they don’t get attention from women, they desperately latch on.
By contrast, handsome men and stylish older gentlemen either don’t kiss much at all or keep it light at first. That’s because everyone has different preferences when it comes to kissing, and you can’t know what someone likes until you try. So they don’t start off with an overly slobbery kiss. They pay close attention to the other person’s reaction. That’s why women like them.
Ultimately, you’re not popular because you’re just imposing your own desires instead of trying to adapt to something as personal as someone’s kissing preferences. If you continue like this, you’ll spend the rest of your life having women dislike being kissed by you.
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I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.”
Men in their late 30s and older almost always have bad breath or some kind of odor… (Even a girlfriend or family member may hold back and not tell you the full truth. And if someone does point it out, they’re being very kind…)
If you’re going on dates, get your breath checked by a dentist and keep up with your maintenance. It should be considered essential.
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Thanks for all the fun questions today.
What may matter is whether both people have genuine feelings for each other.
Even some young women have slightly bad breath, but if I like them, it doesn’t bother me.
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With the papa I love most, I could keep kissing him forever and be perfectly happy.
For me, it’s proportional to how deep my feelings are.
Figure that out beforehand?
There’s no way you can do that.
Marika
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