Why do older guys text so much on LINE? I get that they have plenty of free time, but I never know how to respond when they either send me messages going on and on about their deep feelings, or random, pointless stuff like a blog post. Their emojis and writing style are so uniquely “older guy” that they sometimes make me laugh, but honestly, they’re mostly just a hassle. Sorry.
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I don’t even text that much with close friends or my boyfriend, so do guys from that generation want to be on LINE every minute of the day?
They get angry if I don’t reply quickly, too. Do they think I’m just as free as they are? It’d be different if they were giving me an allowance so I wouldn’t have to work.
Unless they give me a separate LINE allowance on top of the regular allowance, I can’t keep doing this.
I wish male members would be required to provide an allowance through LINE Pay or something whenever they continue messaging after making an offer (TT)
Some people do give me one occasionally, but they’re still pretty rare.
There’s even a papa (a male supporter) who sends me LINE barcodes for Häagen-Dazs every day.
I want to delete LINE. While I’m at it, I want to erase my own existence too.
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I guess there really are papas with that much free time… The world is a big place lol.
More importantly… I’m cracking up over Seattle-sama’s old-man texting style.
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I’m a male member, BB7.
There are all kinds of older guys, but maybe I just happened to come across one who was especially attentive.
I’m sorry, but asking for or paying an allowance just through LINE seemed utterly ridiculous to me.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Honestly, it’s because I have time to spare. When someone is generous with their allowance, I think of myself as a call center employee and reply politely, telling myself, “It’s work.” As a result, they sometimes end up giving me even more allowance.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
That’s probably a rare situation. People like that do exist, but I don’t think it’s likely that you’ll keep encountering only them. You may be doing something that encourages that type of person. You should show more of your true self when you meet them.
It’s also possible that the people making offers are being filtered into that group by your photos or the comments written by the club staff. If you put on an act during the interview, that’s what can happen. When you have your photos retaken, you should show your natural self. If you’re shy and act completely differently once you get comfortable with someone, you should explain that clearly during the interview.
It’s not smart to assume that everything is the other person’s fault or to generalize based only on the people you’ve met. Think about solutions to the problems that have occurred.
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Maezawa from the executive office here with an answer as well.
> I don’t really message friends or boyfriends that much—the closer I am to someone, the less I use LINE. But do guys from that generation want to be messaging every minute?
I think it’s best to just assume that some people are like that. Not everyone is.
You probably just happened to end up with one of those men.
For now, try not replying, and read his messages without marking them as read.
If he gets angry about that, you can be firm and say:
“When we’re not meeting, I’d like us to only message about arranging our meetings.”
If he still gets angry, I think you should end things.
If you force yourself to stay involved with someone like that, I feel like it’ll wear you down emotionally.
If he says he wants you to keep messaging him on LINE, you could set a rule such as:
“I’ll only reply when you send me LINE Pay. If you don’t, I won’t reply.”
But honestly, I think you’re better off ending things with someone like that.
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I’m just bored.
My papa (a male supporter) sends me long, dense messages about things I’m not interested in at all, so it’s not unusual for me to leave them unanswered for two or three days. I only reply when I’m really bored and happen to think of something to say.
That said, my papa doesn’t get angry even when I don’t reply. I do wonder if he’ll eventually cut me off, though.
Marika
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Hey, questioner-chaaaan (^з<)(^o^)
I’m in Seattle. What are you up to⁉ I had gyudon. I’ll send you a picture later.
I’d love to get all cuddly with you sometime.
Get some good rest（笑）Good night.
Thanks for always being so lovey-dovey with me—much appreciated, party night!
An old guy who sends messages like that needs to send LINE Pay, and he is sending it… just kidding.
If you fixate on one person, the questioner will get annoyed with you, and you’ll end up becoming “pien beyond pien, Pien-gaoka Dosukoi-no-suke,” so go make lots of friends instead.
Then both Universe and your little buddy will be super happy—Sugi Drug happy.
That way, you won’t have time to spam the questioner, and everything will be A-OK d(^_^o)
You were born cute, so please don’t erase yourself from existence, okay?
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