Has anyone managed to help a woman who’s never climaxed before reach orgasm? Would letting her use a toy herself help her figure out how to do it? There’s someone I’d really like to see climax, but unfortunately she can’t.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too. > It seems a lot of women want to concentrate when they’re about to climax. > “This feels good, right?” ✕ > “Doesn’t it hurt?” “Are you okay?” ○ Come to think of it, I recently got feedback along the lines of: > “He was kind of a self-centered type during the act, saying things like, ‘This feels good, right?’ It was a bit much.” It’s disappointing that there are still so many men who just don’t get it ＞＜

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. Motivation is important for studying and pretty much everything else, and I think sex is the same way. If you don’t want to feel good, you won’t, and if you don’t want to climax, you won’t be able to. First, check whether your partner actually wants to climax. If she does, I think it’s better to let her take the lead and simply help her get there. Trying to make her climax by taking the lead as a man is pretty difficult. In fact, the harder you try to force it, the better you’ll become at learning the skill of “faking it.”

I’m columnist Fuu. I’ve put it together in a column, in case it’s helpful: https://universe-club.jp/column/fuu16 “Fuu’s Papa-Katsu☆GOLD: The Reality, Episode 16 I Was Able to Make Her Climax!” I don’t use toys. Some women may feel uncomfortable with them, and it seems that stimulation in that one area alone isn’t necessarily enough. The key points Fuu thinks are important when helping someone reach climax for the first time are: - Making sure she feels safe and relaxed - Starting foreplay and setting the mood from the moment you meet - Finding what feels good for her, as well as her favorite positions, intensity, and angles Bonus: Also, don’t talk too much during intimacy（笑） It seems that many women want to concentrate when they’re about to climax. Saying things like, “That feels good, doesn’t it?” is a no. Instead, say things like, “Does it hurt?” or “Are you okay?” is a yes. Unless she specifically enjoys verbal teasing, keep the concerned check-ins to a minimum. I feel that by being considerate and responding to her needs depending on how she’s feeling at the time, the moment will eventually come when you can help her reach climax.

I’m Kazu, a male member. It’s happened a few times. It’s about letting go of the brakes I put on unconsciously, so it’s not something as simple as using toys or anything like that. I think I need to be patient and gradually break the habit of holding myself back. That said, sometimes the brakes come off after just one night—perhaps because we’re especially compatible. Men and women really are mysterious.

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. Even if a woman who’s disappointing does climax, it might make me a little happy, but I’d still feel that she’s disappointing and probably left wanting more. Whether she has climaxed before or not, compatibility with the man matters. I think the best partner is someone you feel comfortable and at ease with. Whether you climax frequently because the chemistry is exceptionally good, or it takes a while before you can climax, neither situation tends to last very long. For women receiving an allowance, it’s also important—for the relationship to continue—to make the man feel satisfied and reassured by the way you climax. Whether from the man’s side or the woman’s side, if one person can climax in a way that leaves the other clearly aware they were deeply satisfied, the relationship will probably feel much more fulfilling.