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May 14, 2021 16:03
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I’ve gotten a little more accustomed to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) lately, and I feel that, for better or worse, I’m not as eager as I was at the beginning. So I’m thinking of making offers to Type A women as well and simply enjoying some conversation.
I’ve looked into the allowances for dinner only (no intimacy) and have gotten a general idea, but as the final piece of the puzzle, I’d like to hear real-life experiences from men here who have actually made offers to Type A women, as well as from women who have gone on dinner dates.
In particular, I’d appreciate responses from anyone who uses a flat ¥50,000 for adult relationship (intimate) arrangements, since that’s what I do.
Also, regarding when to hand over the allowance: Since a dinner date means parting ways at the venue, would it be acceptable to give the transportation fee and allowance together on the first meeting—the standard ¥10,000 plus the allowance—after telling her the amount in advance?
Thank you in advance.
3 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this as well.
> I looked into allowances for dinner-only dates and got a general idea of what to expect.
Once again, you’re just making things up.
It sounds like you’re basing the amount solely on what you decided, and that it may be far from what women actually want.
For people looking for dinner-only dates or wholesome dates without an adult relationship (intimate), the allowance is generally calculated by the hour.
I think ¥7,000–¥10,000 per hour is common.
It’s a world where a four-hour date means ¥40,000, and an eight-hour date means ¥80,000. Usually, transportation expenses are also paid, rounded up to the nearest thousand yen.
(Though if the date is only one hour, transportation is often paid separately; for longer dates, it’s more common for transportation to be included.)
The allowance is also generally paid upfront. If you do something the woman dislikes—such as kissing her or touching her—the date ends immediately, and there’s no refund for the remaining time.
If you don’t believe that’s how it works, try using a rental girlfriend service once and you’ll understand.
I think women use that as a benchmark too.
That said, with Universe, the allowance for a first meeting is usually ¥5,000–¥10,000, so that often becomes the standard.
Naturally, some women want more than that, so it’s important not to make this all about your own assumptions and to properly ask what the woman wants.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
On the first day with both A-type and B-type women, I hand them ¥10,000 within 30 seconds of seeing them. No envelope—I discreetly give it to them in cash when no one’s looking.
There’s no additional allowance after that.
We usually part ways after about 80 minutes on average. But I think that’s pretty quick, so don’t use the time as a reference.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikokuki, a male member.
Since I fit the conditions you described, I’ll answer.
Your ideas about when to give the allowance and how to think about the amount are perfectly fine.
There are various ways to give it. (I can’t go into too much detail because it might identify me, so you’ll need to be creative.) Type A women also have a wide range of perspectives and expectations.
In my experience, things tend to last longer with Type A and Type B women when I don’t bring up the allowance myself. (Women of other types who maintain long-term arrangements tend to feel the same way.)
At first glance, Type A might seem to mean someone who isn’t prepared to go further. In reality, though, some women are Type A precisely because they’re determined to take on the dating club world on those terms. Some are incredibly money-minded underneath, with an intimidating side, and want to see how far things can go without an adult relationship (intimate).
If you’re an adventurer, I think you’ll find this to be a very exciting world.
Also, in your case, there are Type B women (not too close to Type C) who feel that an adult relationship once every three or four meetings, or once a month, is enough. With someone like that, you could keep things intimate only when you’re both in the mood, while still enjoying regular dinner dates without simply parting ways afterward. I think that would probably be a much better arrangement for both of you.