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May 11, 2021 19:51
6 answers
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Before COVID, I went on business trips once or twice a month, so I’d make offers in the cities I visited—Sapporo, Nagoya, Osaka, Fukuoka, and so on.
As I’ve written in my columns, girls from outside the major cities are the best—they’re my favorite. They often seem kind and not jaded.
I haven’t been able to travel because of COVID, but some girls still keep in touch with me.
I wish COVID would end already!
That’s one of the great things about working for a company with branches all over Japan.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here.
I think men have different views on this.
1. Some men travel to meet someone for a date.
2. Some invite women from far away to meet them.
3. Some only go on dates near where they live.
I get the impression that ③ is the most common, while ① is less common.
① and ② may seem similar, but some men believe that if the woman comes to them, she’s more likely to agree to what they want after dinner. So women should be careful when agreeing to meet someone far away.
You can decline an offer even after receiving it. You don’t need to worry about inconveniencing the club.
Other
I’m Chikuwa, a male member.
There aren’t many attractive female members where I live, and the few who are tend to get flooded with offers, so I often find myself wanting to send offers to women in other regions too.
But the farther away they are, the harder it is to meet up, so I keep wavering between wanting to make an offer and thinking I’d probably be better off not doing it.
I wish I had a Anywhere Door...
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’d love to go to Fukuoka, haha.
Is that something I shouldn’t say?
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m date◎yume, a male member.
I don’t get many offers, but I’ve never done long-distance arrangements. I traveled all over Japan quite a bit when I was working, but since leaving my job, I’ve been fully immersed in rural life（笑）
It’s hard to go anywhere unless you have a reason to…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Yes, I did quite a lot.