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Would it be difficult to build a relationship that’s just about sleeping beside each other? I’m looking for emotional fulfillment rather than anything physical. What makes you feel most emotionally fulfilled?

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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Looking for a “sofre” partner… I’m not sure whether that’s something you can find through a dating club. That said, even some women with Relationship Type A profiles do receive offers and go on dates—though only a very small number of them. So if you’re confident in your looks, you could start with dinner and, once you’ve gotten to know each other, say something like: “I’m not looking for anything physical, but would you be willing to just sleep beside me?” That might be possible. If it’s someone you already have a dinner-only relationship with, asking them to sleep beside you seems like it could work.
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I’m in Seattle. I’ve met someone who’s Type A and seems like things might settle into that kind of arrangement. She’s really capable, so I’d be happy to support her through college in whatever small way I can.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member. Are you a man? In your case, it may be difficult unless you’re looking for a relationship that doesn’t involve cuddling or going to a hotel—something like dinner dates only. Generally, I think men seek emotional comfort that includes physical intimacy as well. The most emotionally fulfilling thing is probably achieving something at work that makes you want to throw your fist in the air and shout, “Yes!” That kind of satisfaction lasts much longer.
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I’m columnist Fuu. Assuming the person asking is a woman, apparently some people in their twenties these days don’t have sex very often because they feel it isn’t worth the effort, and the virginity rate among young men has been rising (according to online news). If you found a boyfriend like that, it seems like a relationship limited to sleeping together could be possible. That might be difficult to find through a club, though. There’s a saying that heroes love beautiful women, and I think the drive to succeed in business—or ambition in general—is often directly connected to the desire to sleep with attractive women. Male club members are typically pretty sex-driven. What satisfies Fuu the most is having sex with a favorite papa-katsu girl, seeing her enjoy herself, feeling her tighten around me, and then reaching an incredibly pleasurable climax myself before entering that post-sex “sage” state.
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I’m Taro, a male member. Since it would be easy if you were a man, I’ll answer assuming you’re a woman. I don’t think the possibility is zero. You often hear about customers at adult services who just chat and leave without doing anything intimate. But looking for someone like that through a dating club is far too unlikely. There are cuddle services, so you might want to work at one of those. If you find a customer you click with, you could move to a private arrangement. That’s probably your best bet. If you want to find someone like that through a dating club, you should make it clear from the start. Choose Type A, emphasize it during the interview, and mention it in your profile comments as well. You may not get many offers, but the people who do contact you will probably be serious, so your time shouldn’t be wasted. Still, I think a cuddle service would be your best option(笑) Oh, you want my answer to the question? Cuddling after being intimate with someone I like is emotionally fulfilling. Without intimacy, I’d just be left feeling frustrated, which isn’t good for my mental health(笑)
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it depends on whether the questioner is a man or a woman. If you’re a man, it should be fairly easy. Even if it’s just sleeping together, I think you could find a woman willing to do it if you offered an allowance comparable to that for an adult relationship (intimate). If you’re a woman, I think it could work if you’re the type who receives offers even as an A-type. What fulfills me emotionally is when I’m intimate with a woman and she enjoys it.
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