Tips
Apr 22, 2021 18:10
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I mainly make offers to women in Relationship Types C and B.
When making an offer, I use the videos of registered women as a reference.
Many of the videos from the Nagoya and Kansai branches show the women choosing their relationship type, with direct questions such as whether they’re prepared for an adult relationship… I really like the staff who conduct those interviews.
In Tokyo, however, I feel there are more fairytale-like, soft videos that seem irrelevant to male members.
The introduction videos are meant to help male members decide whether to make an offer, right?
Am I the only one who sees them that way?
To the Tokyo staff: rather than just two or three questions from the “Pandora’s Box,” it would be more helpful when making an offer if you could use question cards with more direct questions, like the other branches.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> The videos of women choosing their relationship type
As far as I know, instructions were given a little while ago to film these nationwide, so I imagine they may be available in Tokyo as well.
If a woman doesn’t have one, it was probably just because there wasn’t enough time to film it, or due to some other unusual circumstance.
That said, I can’t say for sure whether they ask any really probing questions. I believe the videos are more along the lines of asking how she chose her relationship type.
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So basically, you’re just checking whether you can be sure it’ll happen, right?
Marika
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I know exactly what you mean.
I rely on videos a lot too.
You get drawn in by how cute she looks in her photos and think, “Wow, I’d love to make her an offer based on that expression!”
Then you think, “Wait, I’d better check the video just in case…”
→ In the video, she looks completely different from the image you had in mind.
Close one! (cold sweat)
This happens fairly often on GOLD. Videos are also important for checking things like her waistline and overall figure.
I’m also in favor of filming the explanations of each dating type.
I occasionally hear PJ girls say things like:
“I didn’t really get much of an explanation during the introduction…”
“They suddenly told me they were going to take photos…”
I understand that everyone is busy, and I suppose it also depends on which club staff member is conducting the interview. Still, I think recording the explanations would be a good way to standardize the process.
There will probably still be cases where someone misrepresents their type, but I feel thorough explanations could reduce them.
The staff’s fairy-tale-like questions are certainly unnecessary, but when they ask, “Do you like adult relationships?” or “What’s your favorite position?” and then let me choose, I’m doing a fist pump on the inside.(笑)
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
In videos, I’m not really paying attention to what she says—I’m looking at whether we seem compatible.
Her voice, whether it’s too high-pitched, and whether her speaking style is relaxed, gentle, quiet, or calm. I also look at things like her smile, facial expressions, how natural she seems, whether she’s my type, and whether we seem to click.
Everyone has people they naturally feel comfortable with, so that’s what I’m trying to gauge.
I try not to take most of what’s said at face value.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
It’s completely normal for women to exaggerate or even lie about what they say in videos. Quite a few later regret it, thinking, “I shouldn’t have said that...” So be careful not to take everything in a video at face value.
Women who exaggerate or lie in their videos can actually be an opportunity. You can smoothly get closer by saying something like, “Since you said that in the video, haven’t male members been saying things like ___ and making things difficult for you? Are you okay?”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
As someone who doesn’t watch the videos, I don’t find them useful as a reference. The information I find most helpful is all in text form.
I came across a question in the Q&A section, so I searched for and watched a video of women choosing their relationship type, but I didn’t like it—it felt like some kind of evidentiary video. I found myself thinking, “That’s cruel to the women. Just stop.”
The reason I stopped watching the videos was that I saw one involving a tasteless flip-board or lottery-style gimmick about the color of a woman’s underwear. I thought, “Why not just make an offer, have her take it off, and check?”
That said, I learned from the Q&A section that there’s a documentary-style video showing an entire interview, and now I’m curious to watch that one.
I have pretty questionable taste too…
P.S.
I found the question in question:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5633