What kind of partner do you hope for or fantasize about?

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. I never expected to fall for a woman I met here. It really caught me completely off guard.

I’m Kazu, a male member. “Delusion” is a pretty malicious choice of words. **What I expected** Enjoying conversations with fairly attractive women, getting reasonably close to them, and having an intimate adult relationship with someone familiar. I’d also be happy if, from time to time, we could try something a little unconventional—as long as she enjoyed it too. **Reality after two months as a member** I’d gotten reasonably close to two very attractive women, and we had fairly ordinary sex. **Reality after four months** I’d gotten fairly close to two very attractive women, and we had a fairly intimate adult relationship. I’d also gotten reasonably close to another very attractive woman, and we had fairly ordinary sex. **Reality after six months** I’d gotten quite close to two very attractive women, and our relationship had become quite intimate. They were even open to trying something a little unconventional. I’d also gotten reasonably close to two other very attractive women, and we had fairly ordinary sex. That’s basically how things have gone. I’ve continued seeing about one in twenty women. The two women I’ve gotten quite close to apparently receive offers fairly often, but it seems I’m the only man they’ve continued seeing. I found out recently that both of them are currently breaking their personal records for the longest ongoing relationship with a man. I haven’t been holding back from the start. I exceeded my expectations after four months as a member, so I’m very satisfied.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one too. > What kind of person are you hoping for—or fantasizing about? How exactly are you supposed to tell someone, “I’m looking for someone like this”? What sort of people have you dated—or married—in the past, and how much have you been willing to accept or put up with?

Since you never really know what kind of man you’ll meet, I try not to build up fantasies or expectations before going. I’ve never been particularly attracted to looks—in fact, I tend to feel a little uncomfortable with very handsome men. It’s harder to get them to go at my pace, and I end up wondering, “Does he really like me?” So I don’t really care about appearance or physique either way. What matters most is the feeling we get from talking, and how I feel afterward. The men I’m still seeing now are all exceptional in various ways—well above average, haha. On the other hand, men I have to force myself to see don’t stick around. And naturally, I gradually distance myself from men who aren’t good in bed. Among them, my number-one papa (male supporter) is perfect in every way: his looks, his hobbies and conversation, his allowance, and sex. Marika