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Apr 20, 2021 01:43
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I’m a male member, BB7.
For one person, maybe—but having three women say, “I got my period,” after dinner is practically unheard of. It must be an extremely rare coincidence.
With Type C, some women are considerate enough to schedule around their expected dates.
If there’s no second meeting, then you were either definitely disliked or it was a fake type profile.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I was also turned down for a room yesterday on a first offer with, “I just got my period.”
It really gets you down, doesn’t it? I know exactly how you feel. Yesterday, I had to pay the full cancellation fee for the hotel.
I could have negotiated with the hotel, but they’re probably struggling because of COVID, and since I’m a registered member and want to use that room again, I didn’t want to risk being banned.
Unless it leads to making plans for the next date, I suppose the PJ decided that, from a practical standpoint, she couldn’t accept H.
When someone wants to turn you down, it’s much better to hear it softened as, “I just got my period,” than to be told bluntly, “You’re too old and unattractive—I can’t do it.”
Being told “I’m on my period” is depressing when you’re the one hearing it, but it’s the last line of defense for a C-type refusal, so I think we just have to accept it. Let’s look for another PJ who will accept us.
That said, make sure to give the club some feedback.
She may be a habitual type scammer who registers as C to keep the offers coming, when she’s actually an A type. Male members should band together and cooperate to eliminate type scams.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Column Writer Flag Maker.
If she also turned down a second date afterward, then it was probably just a polite excuse. But if you let that alone break your spirit and haven’t contacted her again, why not invite her on a second date and see for yourself?
Sorry if this advice is completely off base. But just because you’re a Type C, are you trying to negotiate the terms of the arrangement and the allowance too much on the very day you meet, assuming you’ll be able to move things forward that same day?
First, put all your effort into the date and show her that you’re a safe, trustworthy man. Then, beyond the allowance and the terms, leave her with enough of a positive aftertaste—and anticipation—to make her think, “Maybe I’d like to see him again.” Instead of focusing on “winning right now,” concentrate on “doing what it takes to win next time.” That might help improve things.
[Note]
Please keep in mind that I sometimes focus so much on getting to the next meeting that I miss the victory right in front of me.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
Normally, I don’t think it would happen three times in a row, so it seems highly likely that you were simply very unlucky.
You seem to suspect that the women were misrepresenting their relationship preferences, but even in that case, I’ve never heard of it happening with three people in a row.
So, if bad luck wasn’t the reason, it unfortunately becomes more likely that there was an issue on your end.
> I make sure to dress appropriately and maintain a clean, well-groomed appearance, so I don’t think they disliked me for that reason.
Even if your appearance was perfectly acceptable, there may have been a problem with the content of your conversations. Your behavior may also have put the women off.
There can be many different factors involved, so this isn’t necessarily a situation where paying attention to your appearance guarantees everything will be fine.
Also, whether she really was on her period or not should become clear if you set a date for your next meeting right then.
If she is able to meet you again, she was probably telling the truth. If she can’t meet you again, then she probably wasn’t.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Was your breath okay? You could also try sucking on a Mintia the whole time.
Maybe your allowance was too low, or he kept going on about himself the entire time.
If you can still get in touch with the three people, I’d ask what went wrong so I could learn from it.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If women are on their periods for roughly one week each month, the chance of a date falling during that time is about 1 in 4. For three women in a row, that’s 1/4 cubed—about 1 in 64, or 1.6%. It’s slightly more likely than winning on a vending machine or dying from a mosquito bite. So, while uncommon, it’s certainly possible.
Even if things don’t work out the first time, there shouldn’t be a problem as long as you set up another date and can be intimate then. If you aren’t getting any follow-up dates, the issue is probably on your end. Of course, it depends on the woman, but with a Type C woman, as long as you have decent manners and good personal hygiene, I don’t think you’d normally be rejected.
Are you forcing your self-centered desires on women? Do you look down on them as if you’re judging them? Do you treat them like women you can sleep with and pressure them into vulgar things they normally wouldn’t do? Do you have nose hair sticking out? Are you already hard by the end of dinner?
This is a good chance to take a hard look at yourself and grow. Instead of just complaining, do your best to solve the mystery.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
That’s unfortunate. It must be a shock. It sounds like there may be something you haven’t noticed, and that you need someone to point it out or make some improvements.
With regular dates, it’s occasionally possible to have two or three in a row, but…
For arranged dates or overnight dates, C-type girls avoid days when they might overlap, so unless her schedule is irregular, it’s almost impossible.