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I’m the person who posted the question earlier saying, “After meeting at a café, we went to a hotel, but all I received was 10,000 yen for transportation.” Apparently, he had had a vasectomy and said he couldn’t have children and would pull out, so even though it was our first time meeting, he had unprotected sex with me. I was worried about getting an infection, but I couldn’t say anything… I know my lack of assertiveness was ultimately to blame, but I would really appreciate any advice.

Answer 1

I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this as well. If he tries to have unprotected sex and you don’t want that, clearly tell him, “I don’t want to.” That’s all there is to it. If he still forces himself on you, then he’s committing a crime. I know it can be difficult to speak up, but if you don’t say no when you need to, you’ll only end up hurting yourself. Of course, it’s different if you feel that this is a man you’re willing to make an exception for.

Answer 2

I’m Kazu, a male member. Just transportation expenses, no allowance, and without protection? That’s unbelievable... At least you’ve learned how important it is to say no to things you don’t want to do! Just to be safe, I think you should get tested sometime next week.

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