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I’m a male member. I’ve met around 20 women through Universe, and they’ve all been pleasant. I haven’t met any of the mean-spirited women who seem to ask questions on this forum. Maybe Universe rejects people who come across badly in interviews, but I feel comfortable meeting women through them. What do you all think?

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I’m Taro, a male member. I think there’s at least a 50% chance that the self-proclaimed female members who ask those kinds of questions in the Q&A box aren’t actually members. Especially the ones who say, “I’m black,” even when it has nothing to do with the question. They’re “black” in a different sense. They might not even be women. Still, that’s just how anonymous forums are, right? On the other hand, answerers aren’t allowed to lie, so you can trust the answers. The female members I’ve actually met have all been decent people. Type A/B women often haven’t fully made up their minds and can be difficult to deal with, but I suppose that’s part of the appeal. Girls who joined through scouts often seem to have been given some strange input, so sometimes I wonder if they’ll be okay...
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I’m Aya, a female member. I think everyone has two sides to them—not just women involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). There are plenty of stories about people who were targeted with online abuse, only to identify the person responsible and find that they had a kind, gentle appearance and seemed like the last person who would use such abusive language. I imagine there are also people on this Q&A site whose two sides are especially easy to see.
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I’m BB7 among the male members. Most of the women I met were perfectly ordinary, but about one in ten was absolutely outrageous. For some reason, women like that always ended up leaving the club pretty quickly, though.
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I’m Papercraft, a male member. Everyone here is wonderful.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member named Basil. I don’t make offers to women whose staff comments mention issues with their attitude, personality, or sense of money. So, among the more than 50 women I’ve met, there have only been a few times when I felt uncomfortable during the meal and had no desire to invite them out again afterward. I’m always impressed by how the veteran staff members conduct proper interviews and write thorough comments. Their notes are very helpful when deciding whom to make an offer to.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one too. I suspect that the rude questions that occasionally pop up lately are actually being posted by men pretending to be women, thinking, “I’m really a guy, but the answerer got fooled,” and enjoying themselves. For one thing, I’ve never seen anyone talk like that during an interview. Even women who don’t pass the interview generally have basic manners. And when someone does lack them, it’s usually just things like not lining up their shoes or sitting too casually. It may seem obvious, but most people come to interviews wanting to be accepted, so anyone can understand that using rude language won’t help. That said, because anonymous question boxes are anonymous, I sometimes wonder if people feel free to write things they normally wouldn’t.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I feel the same way. That’s why I sometimes wonder whether the seemingly nasty women I see in the Q&A box are really female members at all. That said, I do think it also has a lot to do with the questioner’s personality and their good eye for choosing whom to make offers to. > Maezawa, > “I’m actually a man, but the respondents are being fooled...” > I suspect he’s enjoying himself by thinking things like that. Even if I suspect that’s probably the case, I just answer as sincerely as possible in case it isn’t.
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