I’m a female member. Does a letter date really offer women any benefits?
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There’s no allowance
It takes up your time
Your rating goes down if you don’t reply
The staff’s reaction is awkward if you turn it down
Maybe because you’ve been communicating beforehand
They’re all men who assume an adult relationship (intimate) is possible from the first meeting
Above all, the messages come far too frequently.
Please tell me if there are any good points to letter dates.
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
My understanding is that letter dates have lower offer fees, but they also come with a greater degree of personal responsibility.
I’ve recently arranged several letter dates, and so far, everything has gone smoothly. That’s only based on how things are at the moment, though—I have no idea what will happen afterward.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here with an answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> The staff’s reaction seems awkward when I turn it down.
That’s where you’re mistaken.
The staff simply want to arrange the meeting, so it may come across that way, but ultimately, it’s entirely up to the woman whether she accepts a letter date.
So if you’re worried, you could say something like:
“I prefer meeting in person, so I’d be happy to accept a regular offer.”
Since there’s no benefit for women, if everyone started turning them down, I think the club would realize it needs to offer some kind of incentive.
For now, because some women accept them, it seems they’ve ended up offering no benefits at all.
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I’m Hikouki, a male member.
> “The biggest thing is how often he contacts you.”
If you feel that way, you don’t have to reply, and you can also save yourself the trouble of meeting. That’s a benefit.
Compared with a standard agency arrangement, I think it offers women more advantages as well. It’s well received because they can find out what to expect in advance, before meeting.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’ve never done a letter date myself, so take this for what it’s worth…
I think the main advantage of a letter date is that you can get a general idea of each other’s situation before meeting in person. You can decide to meet, or you can decline.
I don’t think failing to reply will lower your rating. Some women even state that they don’t accept letter dates, so I don’t think there’s any particular problem with simply declining.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Does a woman’s rating go down if she doesn’t reply to a letter date? I don’t think it does.
Honestly, I don’t think there’s any particular upside either, haha.
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