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Mar 29, 2021 22:47
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When I’m on dates with men I’ve met through offers, many of them stare at passing women as if they’re undressing them with their eyes, so I’m curious what they’re thinking.
Thank you in advance.
6 answers
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Executive Office here—I’ll answer this one too.
> A lot of men look at women passing by as if they’re undressing them with their eyes.
If they’re regularly browsing the members’ page, I feel like they’d actually be less inclined to stare at women passing by.
If a man behaves that way while he’s on a date, maybe he isn’t enjoying his time with you very much.
You might want to focus on making the date so engaging that he doesn’t even have time to look at other women.
Other
If he’s the kind of guy I can speak openly with, I’ll join in and rank them too.
“Seriously, that’s enough to be black?”
or
“She’s cute, but they consider that gold?”
We say whatever we want.
When you look at it that way, there are actually quite a lot of cute and beautiful women, but there aren’t even one-hundredth as many handsome men.
Marika
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
Maybe the simple truth is that the person asking the question just isn’t being liked(笑). Men probably just want intimacy and find things like meals or shopping to be a hassle.
It could be a problem with the men, but it could also be an issue with her. If she meets several men and they’re all like that, it’s more likely to be on her end.
I don’t think that normally happens. The men are the ones choosing, after all, and since Universe has so many members, they can make offers to women who are far more their type than just anyone they might pass on the street.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I enjoy browsing profiles, but as someone who isn’t exactly popular, if I like my date and want to see them again, I focus all my attention on making sure they don’t lose interest in me.
I don’t have the luxury of closely checking out other girls and ranking them. (LOL)
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Of course I don’t think about that, lol.
Just like you, I focus entirely on my companion during the date.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m not thinking about anything like that.
Whether they’re Standard or Black, they’re all just Homo sapiens. The only difference is whether they’re Homo sapiens who are kind to me or not—it’s not really about their appearance.
A Homo sapiens who isn’t kind to me is just a Homo sapiens, even if they have a Black-tier look.