Tips
Mar 26, 2021 05:42
6 answers
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
I’m in my 40s, but…
I’m actually pretty good at opening up with people I’ve just met.
I don’t think age matters all that much!
My tip for dating is to share one of my own embarrassing stories and have a laugh about it together♪
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
The key is not to view her guardedness negatively as the reason you can’t get close. Instead, recognize that she’s careful and level-headed, and respect the way she approaches dating with her guard up.
Put simply, if you adapt to her, you’ll gradually become close.
Actually, girls who are cautious are more of an opportunity. Most other guys give up and drop out halfway through, lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
As for tips… I’m not sure whether there’s really a trick to it, but I feel that older women tend to be clearer about what they’re looking for in a man. So if a man isn’t what they’re looking for, things probably won’t work out.
My impression is that as women get older, being able to enjoy spending time with their partner becomes more important than the allowance.
And if you found that things didn’t progress as often with older women, perhaps you were a little lacking in making your partners enjoy themselves and getting them to like you.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Women in adult relationships are often more worldly-wise, so that can happen—but on the other hand, things can also move along more quickly.
I think it depends on the person.
The key is to treat her properly as an individual.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
True! That might be one way to look at it.
In my case, I’ve actually met three women. Two were 35 and 30, and both were a no-go. The one I was introduced to was in her early 20s.
Since I’m an old man myself, I decided to take the plunge and meet her. She said, “You’re younger than I expected!” When I asked, “Would you be open to seeing each other?” she replied, “Sure（笑）.”
Later, I asked her, “How could you say yes so readily?” She told me, “Among my friends, older men are considered safer because they’re less likely to pull any tricks.”
Then again, depending on how you look at it, perhaps her cautious behavior comes from all the experiences she’s had（笑）.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
The terms may be stricter when you’re older, but since you’re closer in age, conversation tends to flow more easily and you can usually break the ice quickly—making it smoother to move things forward. So I hope people won’t approach it with preconceived notions.
Rather than age itself, when someone has a lot of experience, they might say things like, “I’ve been there a few times…” or “What’s the name of that restaurant?” They may not have that fresh, innocent quality, and sometimes it can feel like you’re being checked out, but…