Tips
Mar 15, 2021 20:38
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I’m a woman in my early 20s who finished joining last week and am currently waiting for an offer.
I’ve added more profile photos and updated my calendar, but no offers have come in yet. Since I had steeled myself for this, I’m feeling a little extra lonely(笑)
I’ve seen answers to past questions saying that some people go six months without receiving an offer, and I’m starting to worry that time will fly by without me getting one.
Could you give me some tips on what kinds of photos make someone want to send an offer?
3 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
This is just my personal opinion, but I write columns for the club.
https://universe-club.jp/column/riaru9
“Fuu’s papa-katsu: The Real Story of GOLD, Episode 9 — The Types I Can’t Help but Offer and Want to Keep Seeing”
Just sharing this as a reference.
As Maezawa-san says, rather than uploading ten carefully staged selfies, men seem to respond better to one truly great, standout photo.
If you’re prepared to be intimate with older men and can find a balance between that and the money involved, I recommend choosing Type C. I think your chances of receiving offers will increase dramatically. But don’t misrepresent your type just to get offers.
Here’s a little trick: you could post information in this Q&A box that would allow the questioner to be identified. I’d avoid using your club name, but if you include enough identifying details, there’s a chance that male members who read this Q&A site may send you an offer or give you advice on your profile.
It might make you stand out too much, so weigh the risks carefully—but if you really aren’t getting any offers, this is one trick you could try ^_^
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
It’s difficult to give specific advice without actually seeing your profile, but if your selfie looks digitally edited or filtered with an app, that can be a negative, so it’s best to avoid using it.
If you do post a photo, I recommend choosing one that’s as unedited as possible.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
In my case, I start by choosing women based on their occupation. So if you could be reasonably specific about your job, I might take a look at your profile.
For example:
Student → liberal arts college student, science/engineering student
Company employee, office worker, clerical staff → bank representative, generalist at a [type of] company, product development at a manufacturer
Service industry → esthetician, apparel sales associate
I usually skip profiles that simply say “student,” “company employee,” or “office worker.” At that stage, I’m not paying attention to the profile photo yet.
I believe women can edit the occupation field themselves. I’ve heard that directly from female members.
Also, when a woman updates her comment, it appears in the “new arrivals” section on the male members’ page. The list only shows about the first 20 characters, so instead of the usual “Nice to meet you” or “I just joined,” try writing something catchy and different within those first 20 characters. It might help you stand out.
Photos taken at cafés or lounges are pretty common for private photos, so if you have a hobby, I think it’s a good idea to post a photo of yourself enjoying it. For example, if you play golf, use a photo that makes it clear you play golf. Even if you haven’t been out on the course, a photo from the driving range or a lesson should work just fine.
With more than 7,000 women registered, I don’t think people will look at your profile unless you show some personality.