Is there any way to calm down a man with an excessively high sex drive? I still don’t really understand what’s enjoyable or pleasurable about sex, so being asked for it is painful. I’m afraid saying this will ruin the relationship, so I’ve been reducing how often we meet and forcing myself to endure it. Please tell me how to calm down this self-centered ape without hurting his feelings.

Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. Thank you for your question. I think it would have helped if you’d mentioned how strong his sex drive is. For example, some men aren’t satisfied unless they do it five times. I don’t know whether that means two or three hours, but having sex five times on a single date sounds exhausting for the woman as well. In this case, I don’t think it’s possible to calm him down. It’s simply his sexual preference, and I don’t think you can change it. Since this is causing you pain, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to consider ending things. If you decide that breaking up is the right choice, tell him honestly how you feel. If he’s willing to change, you can continue seeing him. But if that seems unlikely, you’ll probably be happier ending the relationship. You shouldn’t stay in a relationship where you’re constantly forcing yourself to endure things.

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you want to calm down a man with a strong sex drive, you simply need to satisfy him sexually. Denying or criticizing someone just because you’re unable to provide what they’re looking for won’t solve the problem. I think you need to either find clients who want what you can offer or develop the skills necessary to survive in the market.

I’m Hikoki, a male member. It’s not that he has an overly strong sex drive—he’s simply an idiot who isn’t making his partner enjoy herself. You can tell him outright that it’s “painful.” You need to make him pay attention to her reactions. If nobody tells him, you’ll keep ending up with men like that.