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Mar 3, 2021 08:42
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They also often tell me, “You have beautiful breasts,” when they undress me and take off my underwear.
Is that just a standard line men use when a woman is on top?
For reference, I’m an F cup and have a defined waist.
I registered with Univer three years ago, and my class at the time was Black (one of the men told me—surely it’s past the statute of limitations by now, lol). I stayed for six months and received about 5–10 offers every month, but every man I met was a strange guy who, despite being Black class, paid poorly, was possessive, bad at sex, had bad breath, and had serious personality issues. I thought, “There isn’t a single decent man here!” and quit after six months.
This time, I registered with Univer again for the first time in three years (I lied and said I had no prior experience with a dating club, but they didn’t catch me, lol). The men told me again that I’m in the Black class.
It’s been three months since I registered, and I’ve been meeting relatively decent men and men who know how to keep things classy.
I’ve also found four papas (male supporters) who meet me two or three times a month and give me an allowance of ¥70,000–¥100,000 per meeting, so my income has stabilized at around ¥600,000 a month.
It’s by no means an enormous amount, but I’m confident it’s almost too good for my looks and status.
The only differences I can think of compared with three years ago are:
・I lost 3 kg
・I had my teeth whitened and cleared up my skin
・I had a nose job and slimmed my face with HIFU
Also, I used to work as a hostess in Ginza, so I feel I’ve learned how to adapt to each man and how to accept and brush off men’s ugly sides to a certain extent.
However, I’m three years older now and in my late twenties, so I’m sure my demand as a woman in her prime has definitely declined.
Has the quality of men at the club improved?
Actually, I feel the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) population has grown and the overall environment has become worse.
Or has my own level improved, giving me more opportunities to be noticed by men who are relatively high-quality?
I want to make the most of the time I have left in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), take full advantage of these older men, deceive them, and squeeze as much money out of them as possible. I’d appreciate your advice.
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“ You’re beautiful in the cowgirl position” is probably just a standard line.
Even I get told that, and I’m in my late 40s.
I wasn’t a member three years ago, so I can’t compare the men from back then with today’s men, but I don’t think things have changed much since I first joined.
I haven’t seen your before-and-after photos, so I can’t say whether your level has improved, but it doesn’t seem to have gotten worse.
I think it’s best not to go overboard with cosmetic surgery, so moderation is key.
If a 20-something Black Class beauty who’s had cosmetic work gets ¥600,000, it gives me confidence that I’m doing pretty well myself.
Thank you for asking such an encouraging question.
Marika
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
Since you mentioned that you used to be in your early twenties, it’s possible you weren’t receiving offers from men who preferred women around thirty.
Perhaps men who want to date women around thirty tend to be more gentlemanly.
> Now that I’m in my late twenties, I’m sure the demand for me as a woman in my prime is steadily declining.
It’s actually the opposite.
Your prime is just beginning.
You’ll be in your prime—and at your most appealing—for about another ten years.
And even once you reach your forties, you’ll still have the fully ripened stage ahead of you.
These days, Universe has been gaining more male members, and women of every age group are in demand.
So in a way, it seems like a pretty good time.
> I want to use and deceive older men as much as possible and squeeze more and more money out of them.
Did you really need to include that?
When I see something like this, it makes me want you to leave the club, haha.
I honestly don’t understand why you added that sentence.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Women look beautiful when they’re on top, so I think it’s a stock phrase. I probably say it too(笑)
> I lied and said I had no experience with dating clubs, but I didn’t get caught.
If both your previous experience and this time were with Universe, I think they knew. The staff simply chose not to call you out on it. Even as an ordinary member, I’ve met several women who were lying while believing they hadn’t been found out. I also deliberately don’t call them out—I just end the meeting after dinner and include it in my feedback. It’s fine if someone lies so skillfully that you can’t tell, but painfully obvious lies are a turn-off; they either lack common sense or have a habit of lying.
For starters, men probably aren’t that perceptive about women’s appearance. We might notice things like losing 3 kg, getting teeth whitened, clearing up their skin, or having nose surgery if we met every week, but not necessarily otherwise.
Saying that a woman’s demand as being “in her prime” has already declined at an age when she’s only just graduating—or not—from being a kid who still smells like urine is laughable. It sounds like something a newly transferred hostess from a cabaret club in Chiba or Ueno, who’s only been working there for two or three days, would say. If she had worked properly in Ginza and seen the top-earning hostesses there, she probably wouldn’t think that way. I wonder if she used to work at a low-level club.
I don’t think the questioner’s level has changed. If anything, perhaps she’s simply become less charming, which would mean her level has gone down. So I doubt the improvement in her dating situation was caused by her level.
Maybe it was just coincidence.