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Mar 2, 2021 23:05
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I recently asked her out on our third date, but she replied that she’ll be busy with work for a while and doesn’t know her schedule yet—ouch.
She seems to have left the club too (her profile disappeared recently).
She happily talked a lot about her work during our dates, so I think she really is career-minded and genuinely busy, but I’m worried she might just fade away.
When someone says they don’t know their schedule for a while, should I avoid getting my hopes up too much?
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Believe what the girl you’re into tells you. You haven’t been dumped—she’s just busy with work. Stay calm and wait for now.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thank you for your question.
It sounds like he may be turning you down.
The reason probably lies in what happened the second time.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I think it’s pretty much over. (Everyone’s replies have been reduced to a single line, lol.)
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Put another way, it’s simple: you’re turning him down, right?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Unfortunately, I think your chances are pretty slim. Rather than getting your hopes up, you should probably assume it’s over.