Tips Mar 2, 2021 12:06

I like them big. Maybe because all my ex-boyfriends happened to be well-endowed, I find it hard to feel much with an average size. The ideal size is one that feels almost too tight for Okamoto XL condoms—the ones with the elephant on the package.

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I really like the feeling of being stretched open, so anything thin inevitably feels unsatisfying. With someone bigger, even ordinary thrusting creates pressure and friction in all the right places, making it feel amazing. However, it’s surprisingly rare to find someone that size… Most men seem to be around an M. Too thin. Sometimes I meet someone who smugly says, “I’m big—is that okay?” only to find that he’s usually about an L at best, which leaves me disappointed. Are XL-sized guys really that rare? Also, how can I learn to enjoy average-sized partners? What should I focus on, and how should I experience it? I’ve always been made to feel good without having to think about it, so I honestly don’t know. I wish men listed their size down there the way women list their bust size! (lol) I’d be hitting “like” nonstop!
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I’m Taro, a male member. Actually, this has basically turned into a humblebrag, hasn’t it? lol Seriously, though, maybe you’d be happier going for the “foreigner” category. Black guys are probably ideal—well-endowed, firm, and supposedly the best.
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Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here, answering as well. Thanks for your question. > Are people who need XL sizes really that rare? Looking at the graph based on 500,000 users of “TENGA FITTING,” it appears to be roughly: - 5.0 cm in diameter: about 9,000 people (1.8%) - 4.9 cm: about 5,000 people (1.0%) - 4.8 cm: about 5,000 people (1.0%) - 4.7 cm: about 10,000 people (2.0%) - 4.6 cm: about 6,000 people (1.2%) - 4.5 cm: about 12,000 people (2.4%) - 4.4 cm: about 6,000 people (1.2%) These are rough estimates. XL condom sizes seem to vary by manufacturer: - Okamoto XL: 4.6 cm - Sagami XL: 4.4 cm So, using Okamoto’s standard—4.6 cm or larger—about 7.0% of people would qualify. That works out to roughly one in fourteen people needing an XL size. So they aren’t extremely rare, but they are still a minority. > I wish men’s profiles listed the size of that area, just like women list their bust size! I’d be hitting “like” nonstop! (lol) I feel like you could simply write in the comments: “I’d like to meet someone who needs an XL size.” You probably wouldn’t receive offers from people who don’t fit that preference, but you might get more matches that meet your criteria. Also, the standard condom size in the EU is apparently 55 mm, so people from Europe may be larger on average, increasing your chances of meeting someone who needs an XL. There might even be one in three. With that in mind, targeting foreign men might not be a bad idea.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. What you’re saying may indeed be exactly right. Even a toy probably wouldn’t be able to fully replace it. As for the places where you feel that pressure, with a finger you can freely explore and apply it alongside the pressure of a large penis. With a finger, you can freely adjust the bend, curve, angle, vibrations, simultaneous pressure on the clitoris, simultaneous pressure on the clitoris, entrance, and inside, or simultaneous stimulation of all four points—the clitoris, entrance, deep area, and inside. I think that would bring you closer to climax than a simple rod, whether it’s a toy or a large penis. Wouldn’t the quickest approach be to train a man’s fingers to learn exactly where you feel the pressure?
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I’m a male member named Kazu. I think only a small minority of people need XL-sized condoms. If they were in the majority, that would be the standard size. There are women who are into well-endowed men, after all. How about adding a comment saying that men who are XL down there might be okay with a lower allowance?
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