I have a hard time getting wet and always receive money while enduring the pain. Some kind papas apply lotion, but many just go ahead because it’s too much trouble. Sometimes fluid comes out when I’m slowly fingered, but it usually ends after a short time.

Our staff member, Dan, will answer as well. Based on what we found, staying hydrated seems to be important. It’s recommended to drink water regularly and have a little more than usual before an adult relationship (intimate). It also mentioned that having some fantasies that help you get in the mood might be useful. As other respondents have said, it would also be a good idea to keep some lubricant on hand. I hope this helps.

I’m a male member, and one of my long-term girlfriends was like you—she didn’t get very wet, but she was extremely tight. However, as I mentioned before, it took more than ten years to fully develop her sensitivity. As you described, she gradually became highly responsive to slow fingering. Everyone experiences movement differently—deep, shallow, in the middle, side to side, or back and forth. For now, I think the only things you can do are use a vibrator and lubricant.

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. It’s possible that the man hasn’t realized you’re experiencing pain. So I think it would be a good idea to talk things through properly and ask him to use lubricant. > How much experience, and what kind, do I need before I’m able to get really wet? I think it’s best to make sure you drink plenty of fluids regularly. This is just my layperson’s opinion, but if your body is low on fluids, the amount of moisture it produces may also decrease. You could also try giving yourself some stimulation. There are topical aphrodisiacs, I believe. Even if they don’t have an aphrodisiac effect, hot-type products will naturally create a warming sensation. When you feel that warmth during insertion, your attention becomes focused on the sensation. If you repeat that a few times, you may eventually find that you can focus in the same way without using an aphrodisiac. I think your body may also respond as your attention becomes more focused.

I’m Meg, a female member. You poor thing, having to go through something so painful… I guess your feelings just aren’t in it. You probably don’t feel like being held by him, don’t enjoy being touched, or want him to do more. First, think carefully about whether you really have to see him if it means forcing yourself to endure it. If you still decide to meet him, bring some lotion and ask your papa to use it. Take care of yourself.