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Mar 2, 2021 02:20
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Meg
Female
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光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
That sounds so nice—I’m jealous!
I don’t get to spend that much time together with my papa, so…
I’d be happy doing anything with my favorite papa, but if it were me, I’d have lunch and then relax at a hot spring together.
Sounds like something to look forward to♪
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well.
Thank you for your question.
Just a quick note of caution: if you meet someone through Universe, please don’t suggest this from the very first date.
Long dates should only happen after you’ve gotten to know each other, and only if the other person agrees. (In other words, you need to tell them in advance that it will be a 10-hour date and get their consent.)
We occasionally receive feedback from women saying they met someone around lunchtime, spent the day visiting museums or doing something similar, and ended up being kept out until nighttime—which they didn’t like.
For example, on dating apps and similar services, I think many people ask for around 5,000 yen per hour for a wholesome date. Some ask for 10,000 yen per hour.
Using that as a reference, even without going to a hotel, a 10-hour date would require an allowance of 50,000–100,000 yen. (That’s simply what some women may hope to receive.)
If you do end up going to a hotel, some women may ask for an additional 50,000–100,000 yen, bringing the desired allowance for the day to 100,000–200,000 yen.
So even if it’s a date after the second meeting, if it’s going to last 10 hours, you’ll need to confirm whether the other person is genuinely comfortable with that and properly discuss what allowance they’re expecting.
Of course, if you’ve already met several times and the other person also enjoys spending long periods of time together, then this doesn’t really apply.
Just a precautionary note.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikouki, a male member.
When you’re having fun and really hitting it off, time flies.
A long drive, spending time at a hotel, hot springs, parks, amusement parks, walks, karaoke, shopping, spa treatments, dessert, bars, show pubs, concerts, watching sports, movies, sightseeing, café hopping, taking a nap, visiting a shrine for the first time in the new year…
If the mood is right, a whole day goes by in no time, no matter what you do. Just see where the conversation leads—decide to go somewhere then, or move on to the next place. You can make plans that day or discuss them in advance.
From noon until 10 p.m., you could simply have lunch, enjoy yourselves at a hotel, take a relaxing nap, then have dinner and go to a bar. Before you know it, it’ll be 10 p.m.
Other
Going for a drive to the suburbs, attending piano concerts, visiting the golf driving range…
Taking walks through Japanese gardens, going to a shrine for the first visit of the New Year, shopping at department stores, visiting hot springs for the day—there are actually quite a few things when I think about it.
Oh, and please let me know in advance if we’ll be doing much walking, since that changes my choice of shoes.
Marika