I have a papa (a male supporter) who wants to talk dirty despite being terrible at it.
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I’m not interested in dirty talk, and I don’t remember ever discussing it, but he suddenly started one day.
Since none of it does anything for me, I ignored him, but when I actually listened, he was saying nothing but weird things.
Lately, I’ve started paying attention to what he says, and it’s making it hard for me to concentrate on sax, which is becoming a problem.
For example, he’ll say, “I want to show you to everyone.”
Who does he mean by “everyone”? We don’t have any mutual acquaintances, and since we’re at a love hotel, everyone around us is doing the same thing anyway. Does he mean he wants to expose me in public? Sure, that would attract attention, but it would be the kind of attention an exhibitionist seeks, which seems different from what he wants. And so on…
Even when there isn’t actually any sound, he’ll say things like, “You’re making such dirty sounds,” or “That’s such a naughty kind of pleasure.” I honestly have no idea what he means.
It would be one thing if it only distracted me, but the way he keeps going on and on despite being ignored is so ridiculous that I’ve actually burst out laughing a couple of times. Fortunately, all he did was look puzzled.
Would it be okay to tell him honestly, “Please stop—it’s distracting me”? Do you think he’d get hurt?
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well.
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> For example, “I want everyone to see you.”
There are apparently people who enjoy things like having a woman walk naked down the hallway of a love hotel.
So perhaps he happened to learn about that kind of play somewhere and wants to try it, but since he’s never actually done it, he doesn’t really know how to go about it and is currently just saying it out loud.
> It started all of a sudden one day.
It’s also possible that another woman said something similar to him and seemed pleased by it, so he assumed all women would prefer that.
> Would it be okay to honestly tell him, “Please stop—it’s distracting me”?
I think it would be best to tell him while you’re in the room afterward.
Something like: “I enjoy it more when I can concentrate, so I’d rather you just continue quietly.”
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I think it’s better to be honest. Afterward, bring it up as calmly as possible, saying something like, “You said something kind of strange earlier—what were you trying to do?” Since you’re giving feedback because you want to maintain a good relationship with her, it’s best to put it politely. For the person being told, it usually hits several times harder than the speaker expects.
Wait—are you talking about playing the saxophone, not having sex? Not just a typo?
If so, “I want everyone to see this” is a positive comment. As for “You’re making such naughty sounds,” I think that’s probably an issue with the way the questioner plays.
It’s strange that the conversation still somehow makes sense either way. It’s like something from Unjash.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I can understand that papa’s feelings, since there was a time when I admired Company Matsuo, the king of amateur sex videos, too. I understand where he’s coming from, but I eventually gave up because I realized I couldn’t do it myself.
Try watching one of Company Matsuo’s adult videos. I think you’ll understand, at least to some extent, what that papa wants to do.
P.S.
I checked out one of Company Matsuo’s videos again for the first time in a while, and it might not be a useful reference after all. His content was much more intense. Sorry.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
What a disappointing papa.
You’re amazing for putting up with such self-centered sex!!!
But if you’re already so turned off, do you still want to see that papa?
That’s what I find puzzling…
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think he’s trying to verbally dominate you. It sounds more like your papa (a male supporter) is trying hard to get himself worked up.
The fact that he keeps saying it even when you ignore him also suggests that it isn’t really verbal domination.
If you tell him to stop because it distracts you, he may not be hurt, but he might lose focus, fail to keep himself aroused, or lose his erection.
Instead, why not help get him in the mood? Try saying something like, “Ohhh! That’s amazing!” But if you don’t say the right phrase at the right moment, he may end up feeling the way you do now. Think of it like a rhythm game and try using different lines at the right moments, such as “Ohhh! That’s amazing!” or “Go deeper!”
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