There were absolutely no signs that things were about to end. She was smiling as usual, and we were ...

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There were absolutely no signs that things were about to end. She was smiling as usual, and we were having a good time. I don’t think I did anything unpleasant. On the day we were supposed to meet, she canceled at the last minute and apparently blocked me afterward. I can’t reach her. Even our messages up until the day before were completely normal. Four days before the last time we met, she was frequently kissing and hugging me in public. Looking back, was it because she had already decided that would be our last time together? For about a year, we met several times a week and kept reaffirming our feelings for each other. Why would she do this?

前澤 · Answer

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer.

Thank you for your question.

If you’re a man, then yes, that can happen.

There may come a time when, for one reason or another, someone decides they want to stop doing this kind of thing. Maybe she got a boyfriend, maybe a friend said something to her, or maybe the timing simply came when she had already been thinking about ending it at some point.

If things were still like that just four days ago, I don’t think she disliked you.

It’s just that the time for it to end came suddenly.

You had a good year together, so I think it’s perfectly fine to enjoy the afterglow for a while.

When you meet your next woman, I hope you’ll make the most of your time together without regrets, keeping in mind that nothing lasts forever.

If you’re a woman, then I would guess something like the man’s wife finding out may have happened.

西中 恵 · Answer

I’m a female member named Meg.

That sounds really painful…

But your partner may have been hurting even more than you realize.

Maybe she fell for you too deeply. When that happens, it’s painful because she can’t see a future with you.

I feel like that final hug and kiss were her way of saying, “I loved you so much. Thank you for everything.”

It’ll probably hurt for a while, but time will help heal things too. Try to look ahead and keep moving forward.

伊達◎ゆめ · Answer

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.

I don’t know the reason, but I think it’s best to leave her alone. It’s unfortunate, but those who leave shouldn’t be chased.

太郎 · Answer

I’m Taro, a male member.

I’m a little confused since I don’t know the questioner’s gender, haha.

I’ve experienced that too, but in most cases, there’s probably another reason unrelated to the questioner.

The best thing to do is not dwell on it and move on to the next one.

紙ひこうき · Answer

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.

Women have a way of suddenly disappearing… Maybe they’re just cat-like?

カズ · Answer

I’m Kazu, a male member.

Maybe his wife found out—or almost did—or perhaps he lost his job and ran out of money.

Since you said he was even kissing and hugging you in public, maybe his wife found out.

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