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Feb 27, 2021 21:15
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Thanks for your question.
Even if a woman usually uses her phone a lot, I don’t think many women stay on it constantly. Usually, they’ll explain things like:
“I just need to reply to something,” or
“It’s from ○○, so I’ll answer it first.”
If she’s on her phone the entire time, it probably means she doesn’t dislike you, but she isn’t particularly interested in you either.
Or perhaps she feels she has no choice because she’s doing it for the money.
You shouldn’t get angry about it, but I think you’d be better off thinking about how to make her interested in you.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Of course you want someone who’s totally your type physically, with great conversation and a warm, considerate way of being there for you.
There’s no fun in settling. Though, of course, the girl can say the same about her partner…
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
That’s a classic situation with women. I’ve experienced it many times myself.
Personally, I’d rather not get involved with someone who starts using her phone while talking to me, so at that point, I consider it a definite dealbreaker.
With her sitting right in front of you, it might be funny to send her a LINE message.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
Personally, that would be a no-go for me. Some women may talk that way as part of their normal conversation, but I know there are also young women who don’t, and I definitely prefer the latter.
That said, if she’s exactly your type and you want to get intimate with her, why not see how things go? Even if it ultimately ends up being nothing more than a physical encounter, it’s not disrespectful as long as you give her the agreed-upon allowance—and I think you’d be reasonably satisfied too.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
It probably doesn’t mean they dislike you, but seeing that isn’t exactly a pleasant feeling, is it?
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> Girls like this probably use their phones even when they’re having dinner with friends, right?
People these days spend quite a lot of time on their phones. It’s hard to tell whether they’re simply more interested in their phone, or whether they’re on it because they’re not interested in the man they’re with.
On the other hand, women who are 100% interested in a man they’ve only just met can feel a little intimidating, depending on how you look at it.
At first, it might be better to keep a comfortable distance, like someone who’s a little shy.
You can usually tell after meeting two or three times, though（笑).
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Seattle.
If you’re good at keeping the conversation flowing → she’ll act like herself.
If you tend to be quiet → she’ll be bored and lose interest, thinking, “I just want to get paid and leave.”
As a man, try using your phone too and bringing up the app you met on.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Yes, she’s probably just the type of woman who lives that way. I’m surprised there are women like that at Universe Club too.
She’s likely just as indifferent to her papas as usual, and doesn’t particularly dislike you.