I’m living in my papa’s apartment as his mistress, but he only comes over when he feels like it. He’s still going on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) dates with other girls, yet when we entered into our mistress arrangement, he told me to quit papa-katsu and stop seeing other men, and I agreed.
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I told the other men who had contacted me that I couldn’t meet them anymore, then blocked them. But one of the papas I used to meet, who had contacted me before, reached out to me by text message using my phone number.
He said:
“I guess you found yourself a good papa.
Are you enjoying it?
I’ll pay you three times as much as before, so why don’t we go out for some delicious food together?”
Honestly, I’m wavering.
What would you do?
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If I were in your position, I’d go for it without feeling guilty at all lol.
1. He says it’s a mistress arrangement, yet your papa is seeing multiple women.
2. Even so, he expected you to cut off other men, and you’ve faithfully respected that.
3. On top of that, he only comes around when he feels like it. In other words, he doesn’t really value you.
**Conclusion:** At this point, he’s the worst kind of papa, so breaking your promise a little would simply restore the balance. In other words, there’s nothing wrong with breaking that promise.
I’d say this is one of those cases where betraying the other person and lying to them actually balances things out.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
You’re clearly fed up with your current papa (a male supporter)...
No wonder you’d want to go with someone offering three times as much...
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Thank you for your question.
Three times more?
That sounds good.
If it’s three times as much, I think you should go for it.
The fact that it’s not just double is a nice touch. That papa probably likes Char’s custom Zaku, right? (笑)
From the way you wrote, “My papa goes on papa-katsu dates with other girls, though,” I think you also feel it’s unfair that you’re the only one being held to a different standard.
If that’s the case, I think it would be fine to meet him.
However, there’s a chance your current papa could find out and end things with you, so I think you should consider everything carefully before making your decision.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it depends on how you see it. If you don’t feel that promises made to your papa (a male supporter) are worth keeping, then go ahead and meet him. But if you believe a promise is a promise, then you should decline.
What other people would do isn’t really the issue.
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