https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5866

I understand how you feel (lol). I also got hung up on things like, “Is losing his erection really the woman’s fault?” and “What do you mean by ‘do his job seriously’? Is this work or something?” But on a Q&A site with all kinds of personalities, questions can’t always be explained in much detail, and the person answering doesn’t necessarily understand the full context from the start. Everyone reads the question, forms their own impressions and assumptions, and answers however they like. I’d be happy if you could just laugh it off with something like, “Ah, that’s such a typical answer from ○○!” Marika

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. When we read something in a rush, we can sometimes misunderstand the context. Why not try reading it over again calmly? The way I read it, he isn’t blaming the woman entirely for losing his erection. In response to: “Has he realized that he doesn’t need to climax anymore...?” I think the point is that, rather than simply accepting that, he should show enough consideration to think, “If that doesn’t work, there’s always her mouth; if that doesn’t work, there are her hands,” and act accordingly. Even if the other person says it’s fine, many men would probably be happy if she thought, “He must really feel differently,” and said, “I’ll take care of you.” Of course, some men are perfectly happy just being affectionate, so if you’re thinking, “Come to think of it, my papa hasn’t tried penetration for about a year,” then I think it’s fine to leave things as they are. But if that’s something you usually do, it seems a little too soon to assume that he doesn’t need to climax. So, since you’re concerned about him losing his erection, I think he’d appreciate it if you were willing to continue with oral or using your hands—even though you said that just being affectionate was enough. Good luck.

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you get that worked up just because one of the six answers was a little harsh, your temper is way too short. And you misread it, too. You reminded me of those selfish older men who sometimes post questions and then blow up because they didn’t get the answer they wanted. Harsh answers can still be useful, so I think you’d do well to calm down and consider what was said. As Mac-san wrote in his answer, “If I lose my erection and embarrass a woman, I should commit seppuku,” he is expressing the exact opposite view of papa-katsu men who blame the woman entirely when they lose their erection. On top of that, he gave the questioner some passionate and useful advice: don’t just sit back complacently—if one way doesn’t work, there are other ways, and if that doesn’t work, there are still other options. > Saying “A woman who can’t make her papa climax has no business doing papa-katsu” is going too far, but the fact that you’re asking a question like this to gloss over the issue—whether you realize it or not—means you should be ashamed. Take your role more seriously. This part was written to make the questioner feel a sense of urgency; it wasn’t blaming the woman for his losing his erection. What he’s saying is that, rather than counting on the papa to simply give up because he lost his erection, she should put more effort into trying to help him climax, even if he does lose his erection. Sure, leaving things alone when a man loses his erection is fairly normal for a woman. But if she helped him climax in another way, I’d think she was a great woman and someone to cherish. That was very useful advice. Your facade comes off far too easily, so if you’re going to put one up, I recommend making it a little thicker. Also, it would be good if you could learn to read things a little more calmly. In short, the premise of your question—that Mac-san was blaming the woman entirely for his losing his erection—is a misunderstanding on your part, so I have no answer to the question itself. Please understand that you simply got the wrong impression.