I’m curious why being choked makes it easier for me to climax. I normally can’t, but I can when someone chokes me. I’m not particularly submissive, so I’d like to understand this. Does physically holding my breath make me climax? It’s hard for me to say that I want to be choked, so please tell me how I can subtly lead my partner into doing it.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here. Thanks for your question. > I feel awkward saying that I want him to choke me. Could you also tell me how to steer him toward it? Even if you try to steer him in that direction, a man with no experience probably won’t understand at all, so I don’t think subtle hints will work. I think it’s best to simply say, “I want you to choke me.” A man with no experience will probably be surprised and hesitate because he won’t know what to do. Also, choking someone around the entire neck will only make it difficult to breathe, so the key is to guide his hand to the specific spots and say something like, “It feels good when you apply pressure here and around here.” As for the pressure, gradually show him how strong you want it.