Once men reach their 50s, can they still feel satisfied just by cuddling and fooling around, without penetration—or even without climaxing after penetration?

I’m Taro, a male member. Getting into a fight and calling him an old geezer—you two actually seem to have a pretty good relationship（笑） I don’t think losing his erection was caused by that. “Old geezer” was just an insult, and I doubt it hit him that deeply. Besides, you were intimate afterward. There must have been some other reason. Still, it was probably quite a shock for him. I’m sure he wanted to regain his ability to have sex properly. It’s a real shame that your “comeback attempt” couldn’t happen because you were on your period. And when he said he wanted to cuddle, maybe he was hoping the stimulation would help him check whether his ability to get an erection had returned（笑） As a woman, you don’t need to do anything. If he asks you for something, you can help him, but if he doesn’t say anything, just forget about it. Oh, but the next time he manages to finish, you might want to give him a tight hug right then. I’ve had that happen to me before, and it made me a little happy.

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering as well. Thank you for your question. If you’re close enough to spend four nights together, you might still enjoy simply being affectionate and intimate. However, I don’t think you originally agreed to just that—you probably wanted to go further normally. That said, if she’s on her period, you may feel there’s nothing to be done and look for other ways to enjoy your time together. Forcing something she’s uncomfortable with wouldn’t be enjoyable, so I think keeping it to affection and intimacy is your mutual compromise. Ultimately, I think it depends on how you feel. Some people are comfortable being intimate during their period, while others may prefer using their hands or mouth. There’s no need to force anything. If you’re both considerate of each other, I’m sure you can come up with various options.

I’m Kazu, a male member. You don’t have to be in your 50s to get a decent amount of satisfaction from just cuddling and fooling around. Of course, penetration and ejaculation provide an even greater sense of satisfaction. A flamboyant one-man company president may actually be sensitive underneath. In many cases, sensitive people learn to act tough as a way of getting by. The cause may not necessarily have been that you called him an old man. He may have been tired, or perhaps something was bothering him before the trip. There could be any number of reasons, or it may have been the result of several things piling up. In other words, there’s no point in overthinking it. You don’t reach enlightenment just because you lose your erection once. True enlightenment comes after experiencing it countless times, giving up, and eventually arriving at acceptance. If there’s one thing you should do, it’s not to make an issue of him losing his erection. If a woman focuses on it, he’ll notice, and it will put pressure on him. Just be the same you that you were before. And if your papa (a male supporter) asks for your help, I think it’s fine to respond—as long as it’s something you’re comfortable doing.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. > Once a man is in his 50s, can he feel satisfied just by being affectionate, without penetration—or even if he doesn’t finish after penetration? You can’t really feel satisfied that way. But if you can’t finish, then that’s the only option. That said, true satisfaction isn’t really about whether you finished or not—it’s about what kind of time you were able to spend with the woman. Losing your erection is often just the result of that overall level of satisfaction… > He lost his erection for the first time, and I was pretty shocked. In my case, once I start losing my erection, I usually can’t manage it again the second or third time either, and we gradually drift apart. The fact that you’ve been together for three years means you must be very compatible, so hopefully everything will be back to normal next time. As much as possible, don’t say anything and just let him be. Also, being pushed to finish with hands or oral can make a man feel a little lonely or empty, so just keep it moderate. Sometimes, doing nothing is actually the best way for him to finish with a woman. However, the biggest reason this can happen is that another attractive woman with whom he’s also highly compatible—someone he doesn’t lose his erection with at all—may have appeared. If that’s the case with your male partner, it may be difficult for him to bounce back… P.S. It’s also possible that he forgot to take his medication, or misjudged the timing or dosage.