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Do you papa-katsu losers really think someone will gently stay by your side when you die? Do people who can’t cherish even one person really have the nerve to think that?

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You’ll have no one beside you, and I think you’ll die alone, suffering in loneliness. You may be able to pay to have someone by your side, but no one will truly be there for you emotionally. (^ ^)
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Meg
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. I’m sorry, but I’m the complete opposite of you. We’re both married, after all. I probably won’t be told when my papa passes away, and he won’t be able to know when it’s my turn to go. But I want our hearts to remain close forever. I can’t stop crying as I write this…
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
This is Maezawa from the CEO’s office. Huh? It’s not even a question, and the language is pretty vulgar. I thought it had been hidden, but since so many people are answering, I guess it’s visible after all. Still, I wonder if something unpleasant happened to them. I feel like there’s no need to vent their bitterness here, though.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Lately, I’ve been reminded just how great Type B is, and it’s been making me really happy. I’m a male member, by the way—Paper Airplane. To the person who asked: Have you ever felt like you weren’t being treated with care? Like you were being treated as if money meant they could do anything? Are you stressed out? “I’m stressed from having to say ‘This is delicious’ every single time.” “It’s painful having to finish everything.” “I just want to eat what I actually feel like ordering.” “Sometimes I want to be honest and say it doesn’t taste good.” “I can’t keep dragging things out for that long.” “Just hurry up and get on with it.” “Don’t ask me if I enjoyed it.” “As if I could possibly give you the opposite answer.” “How am I supposed to tell you what I really think?” There—I said what you were probably thinking… I hope you find someone you can be yourself around, someone easygoing and fun to spend time with. Everyone has things that suit them and things that don’t, so if it’s already wearing you out, continuing papa-katsu will only make you miserable.
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I’m Taro, a male member. This question is so hard to know where to start picking it apart, but it’s interesting, so I’ll indulge you. First of all, if the person asking this is young, I don’t think you understand it at all. Older people are far older than you, which means they’re much closer to death. They’ve thought about death, life, and aging many times more than you have. In that sense, this question is shallow—far too shallow (lol). Young women dating older men should really think about this properly. After considering all of that, you decide how to live each day. Your resolve and the density of your life are completely different from those of young people who assume they’ll definitely be here this time next year. One of the real appeals of a dating club is getting to watch them struggle with all of that—but I guess you don’t understand that. To answer your question: people are born alone and die alone. It’s the same while we’re alive—when things are truly difficult, no one can help us. Precisely because we understand that, I think we can genuinely appreciate small acts of kindness and consideration.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. What happened!? Shinagawa!? Oh—sorry, I mean the questioner. Well, I guess something happened that made you fed up. In life, you sometimes have to make sacrifices to gain something. You have to put up with things to receive an allowance. Even in Hunter × Hunter, you need “restrictions” to gain powerful Nen abilities. And in Jujutsu Kaisen, you need “binding vows” to gain powerful cursed energy or strength. I think there’s still value in a Q&A site if it gives you a place to vent those unpleasant feelings. The questioner is probably holding it in without directing those feelings at their papa (male supporter), which is why they’re saying it here.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. For now, it’s clear that the person asking the question doesn’t seem happy. Even if you care deeply about someone, that doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll gently support you and stay by your side. These days, more than 80% of people die in medical institutions, while only around 10% die at home. Personally, I generally prefer being alone, so I’d rather die alone in a medical institution than at home. I don’t want to suffer when I die, so I’d prefer not to undergo life-prolonging treatment or waste money on medical care—I’d just like to be allowed to pass away quickly.
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