The other day, I had a first meeting over a meal with a business owner as a Type B.
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We parted ways after about two hours and agreed to meet at a hotel another day before saying goodbye.
He said he’d contact me again, but I’m feeling really disappointed that maybe he wasn’t interested after all.
How long should I wait before giving up if he doesn’t contact me?
I want to move on and focus on the next one!
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
You won’t know what a man is thinking just by waiting, so I think it’s better to ask things like:
“When can we meet again?”
or
“Are you free to meet on [date] next week?”
From his response, you should be able to get a general sense of how he feels.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Men have all kinds of perspectives, but it might be best for you to invite him on a date once. That should help you reach a conclusion.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
The usual pattern is this:
After a first meeting, the woman will usually contact the man right after they part ways—within 5–10 minutes—or once she gets home. The man replies, and they discuss possible dates for the next meeting. That same day or the following day, the woman will generally follow up about the date—or, if she can’t decide yet, explain why and give an idea of when she might be available.
If the man isn’t interested, he won’t ask about scheduling another meeting at this point.
You can usually get a sense from your messages that day of how excited you both are and whether you want to continue seeing each other.
Ideally, the woman should reply sometime that day and talk about what she enjoyed, what made her happy, or what she liked. It’s a good way to gauge each other’s feelings, enthusiasm, and compatibility over LINE or messages.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
In my case, if a Type B woman doesn’t suggest another date, I won’t meet her again. In other words, I don’t reach out first.
So if that man follows the same approach I do, there will never be a second date unless you contact him.
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