It’s been about three months since I registered, and I finally received an offer from a kind, gentlemanly papa (a male supporter). But he seems to have trouble finishing after drinking alcohol (maybe I’m partly to blame), so the adult relationship (intimate) continues for about two hours.
This has happened twice now: I have to catch the last train, so I go home without finishing.
To be honest, I don’t dislike sex, but the longer it goes on, the more turned off and uncomfortable I become, and it starts to hurt. Even so, he keeps touching me because he wants to satisfy me…
I’m not the type who can finish multiple times, but perhaps he’s met many women who can, because from the things he says, he seems to assume that women can finish repeatedly.
Compared to that, I’ve realized that I’m pretty unresponsive.
I can’t bring myself to tell him the truth because I don’t want to ruin the mood.
Are there really many women who can finish repeatedly like adult film actresses?
He later invited me on an overnight date, but I was scared that this would go on even longer, so I turned him down—and now I feel guilty.
This may be a bit incoherent, but I’m feeling really down.
I don’t have the luxury of turning down offers, so…
I keep wondering whether I wouldn’t find it so difficult if I actually enjoyed sex more, or whether I’m simply not suited for this.
I’d really appreciate some encouragement.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
Thank you for your question.
> It seems like I’m not supposed to drink alcohol.
In that case, I think you should simply ask him not to drink.
Tell him that two hours is honestly long enough to start hurting, and try saying:
“Let’s skip the alcohol today so we can enjoy ourselves afterward.”
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
> “The whole thing continued for about two hours…”
The man you were with wasn’t considerate at all. He clearly wasn’t paying attention to you, and you two weren’t compatible.
Of course you lost interest. Of course it hurt. Anyone would find it painful.
When two people are compatible and can climax multiple times, even 10 or 20 minutes can be enough for it to happen repeatedly. Thirty or forty minutes is more than sufficient.
Even if being touched feels effortless because you don’t have to do anything, you still can’t endure it for over an hour, right? And when the other person keeps trying over and over despite it not working, it’s bound to kill the mood.
When the chemistry is good, even what feels like a long time is actually only around 10 or 20 minutes. When two people aren’t compatible, it can drag on endlessly for over an hour. That’s just how it is.
When the chemistry is really good, even during a two-hour hotel stay, both people are satisfied and can spend most of those two hours falling asleep in each other’s arms. Sometimes you might even climax repeatedly while waiting for the bath to fill. That’s what it can be like when the chemistry is exceptional.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Maybe you’re simply not physically compatible. Whether to agree to overnight stays—or even continue the arrangement at all—can be treated as a business decision. There’s no need to feel down about it.
Once you meet someone you’re compatible with, everything looks different. No one is inherently unsuited for intimacy; you just haven’t met the right person yet. Thinking of it that way makes you look forward to the next offer, doesn’t it?
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