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Feb 22, 2021 23:23
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
I think it should be fine if you talk with someone around your age and the things you want cost roughly the same amount.
> How should I act so that my papa doesn’t think I’m only interested in his money?
I think it helps to remember how you acted at the beginning.
When meeting someone for the first time, even if they ask about your allowance, I think it’s safest to say, “I’ll leave it up to you.”
If the allowance is too low, you can simply decline to meet again.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
If you make a rough spending plan and generally stick to it, I think your money management is fine. However, if you’re spending every bit of the money you receive as soon as you get it, without any plan, that could be a problem.
Try to use your money wisely and plan ahead...
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Don’t let yourself lose your sense of money over a mere ¥1 million.
Wait until you’ve saved ¥50 million before letting your spending habits get out of hand. Ideally, make it ¥100 million. If you invest it wisely, you might be able to live comfortably for the rest of your life.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
You can’t really go back to working a part-time job for 1,000 yen an hour, can you?
For a girl like that, even a 2,000-yen meal would feel like a treat. But when you look for a restaurant she’d actually want to go to, don’t you end up choosing somewhere that costs about ten times that?
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), both men and women become somewhat numb to money, don’t they?
I’ve started becoming desensitized since joining the club, too. So when my daughter asks for pocket money, I sometimes catch myself thinking about giving her around 10,000 yen… Then I tell myself, “No, no,” and calmly give her 3,000 yen instead. She gets incredibly happy, and I feel relieved… But somehow, the amount has still gone up by a whole digit.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
If you’re using money earned through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to cover your living expenses, your sense of money is bound to become distorted. Taking a taxi when you could easily take the train, or buying both options because you can’t be bothered to decide—letting your guard down in these little ways gradually affects your mindset. As for where to draw the line and say, “Your sense of money is out of whack,” that’s something you should decide for yourself.
Wanting to be seen as someone who isn’t motivated by money is a separate issue. I think it comes down to whether you can properly build a relationship that’s about more than just money. McDonald’s used to have a commercial with the slogan “Smiles are free.” You can start with things like that—expressing your feelings, consideration, and gratitude toward the other person through your words and actions, or occasionally doing something together without receiving an allowance. On the other hand, if you’ve lost sight of those things, I think it’s fair to say that your sense of money is definitely broken.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
You often see women on social media whose sense of money seems to have been warped by papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’m not sure whether the people behind those accounts are really women, or whether their values are actually that distorted, though. I can’t really think of having met anyone like that.
If she seems interested in “only” the money, the relationship ends up feeling cold and transactional. But I think it’s perfectly fine if she’s seen as being interested in the money “as well.” That actually makes things more reassuring.
Other
Can you live without money from your papa (a male supporter)? If not, you’re already in too deep.
Oh, I didn’t actually answer the question.
So, you already have plenty of money, but you can’t stop seeing your papa because you want more—and you want to keep that hidden, right?
If you can properly thank your papa, there’s no need to hide it, is there? He probably understands that much.
If this is a genuinely romantic relationship, you’ll need to play the part convincingly. All you can do is show him that you’re with him because you like him—not because of the money.
Marika