I’m a female member. Sorry for the long post.

I’m Hikouki, a male member. Having three dates a month at the beginning probably meant you were already a secondary or a backup option by that point. If that’s the case, it wouldn’t be surprising if things eventually settled into a simple ongoing arrangement of about twice a month. That’s probably all the relationship amounted to. Fortunately, I think you were lucky to be able to continue long-term without being dropped from the secondary position. At this point, I imagine the man feels more or less fine with things ending at any time. As for what to do, I think it would be best to meet only when he invites you, and to limit asking him about your schedule to no more than once a month. He probably won’t cut things off that easily, so if you meet once or twice a month, I think you can continue the arrangement just fine.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. Thank you for your question. > The loneliness is gradually turning into stress, and I’m starting to wonder whether I should end things. Even if you don’t intend to end things, sometimes relationships come to an end anyway. Perhaps you’d rather be the one to end it than be dumped, but I don’t think that distinction really means much. I think it might be a good idea to continue seeing your current man while also dating several other men at the same time. If you’re currently on a break, restarting might bring you some new offers as well. For example, if you were seeing three men twice a month each, that would give you six dates a month in total. If the other men saw you three times a month each, you’d have eight dates a month altogether. In the process, you might even begin to understand a little more about how men feel. Seeing other men in parallel might also make you more appealing. If that happens, I think you may be able to return to the same frequency as before. For now, I suggest seeing several men while thinking about how you can enhance your own appeal.

I’m Meg, a female member. You can’t help but feel when your papa’s feelings are drifting away. It’s lonely and painful, isn’t it? When you can’t see each other, you end up thinking about even more upsetting things. I really can’t see this as someone else’s problem… I feel like I’m going to cry. It’s hard to hold on to someone’s feelings. First, try facing your own feelings. “I was able to love him this much. But it’s painful carrying this much stress in our current situation. I don’t want to regret ending things.” It would be good if you could honestly tell your papa that this is how you feel right now… but I know that may be difficult.