Should I make sure I’m always able to end things with my papa?
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When you’re in a relationship where you receive money, do you have to be prepared for it to end at any time?
I shouldn’t expect the kind of trust and security you’d have with a real boyfriend, right?
Maezawa from “The President’s Office” here.
Thank you for your question.
> I shouldn’t expect the kind of trust you’d have in a real boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, right?
I think it’s perfectly fine to build the same kind of trust you’d have in a genuine romantic relationship. That said, even real couples sometimes break up.
I think fewer people stay with the very first person they date for the rest of their lives.
The same applies to genuine relationships: if you want to lessen the pain when things end, you’ll probably need to stay prepared for that possibility. But if thinking about breaking up while you’re still together would make things less enjoyable, then I don’t think you should dwell on it.
That said, I do think the shock is probably greater for the latter group when the breakup actually happens.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Since we’re all human, I’m sure it’s certainly possible to build a deep relationship of trust. But in many cases, things end as a shallow relationship based solely on having sex for money. If you approach it with the understanding that you’ve already been intimate with someone, the chances of building deep trust are probably much lower than in ordinary dating. That said, while the odds may be low, I believe there are still a fair number of cases where it happens.
It’s important to be prepared for things to end at any moment and to cherish each moment you have together. But I wouldn’t recommend giving up. Even while accepting that possibility, keep trying patiently and persistently. You may get hurt when things don’t work out after placing your hopes in someone, but that can happen in ordinary dating too. I wish you the best.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If you already knew you were going to win at rock-paper-scissors, it wouldn’t be any fun.
Love and life are unpredictable, which is why we can feel joy—and make an effort to shape things that way.
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For example, you need to have enough money set aside to move out of the apartment your papa (a male supporter) rents for you. Otherwise, even if you’ve had enough, you won’t be able to get away.
Marika
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I believe that relationships through an exclusive dating club require you to be prepared for them to end at any time.
The trust between you and your papa (a male supporter) is no different from the trust between a boyfriend and girlfriend, but it’s important to clearly recognize that it exists within the framework of the dating club.
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